Do you dress provocatively for your spouse?

[Jennie726]

I wear lingerie sometimes, but usually my husband finds me the sexiest when I'm wearing nothing but a shirt lol (Well, underwear too lol). He always finds me sexy when I'm wearing the weirdest things! lol. But when I do dress up for him, he definitely notices!! Very rarely do I dress up when we go out now, though. I'm just one of those gals that love sweat pants and tees, if you can't tell from character, lol.

 

[onlooker]

LOL...we have 6 kids in the house, so we're both usually fully dressed until we hit the bedroom. My wife knows that white silk panties are my kryptonite (sorry if that's TMI), and if we're in the kitchen, she'll usually say "Psst...look" and slides her jeans down just enough to show me she has them on. Of course, I can't concentrate on anything after that, acting all goofy and everything...trying to hurry the kids to bed. The oldest has caught on, and out of respect, tries to help get the younger ones to settle down so mom and dad can " do their thing".

 

[paleodoxy]

LOL...we have 6 kids in the house, so we're both usually fully dressed until we hit the bedroom. My wife knows that white silk panties are my kryptonite (sorry if that's TMI), and if we're in the kitchen, she'll usually say "Psst...look" and slides her jeans down just enough to show me she has them on. Of course, I can't concentrate on anything after that, acting all goofy and everything...trying to hurry the kids to bed. The oldest has caught on, and out of respect, tries to help get the younger ones to settle down so mom and dad can " do their thing".

Skip the boxers, briefs and boxer briefs. If I'm in the mood to "dress down" to be sexy for my wife...I wear a g-string.

At least God's blessed me with the physique (for now) to get away with it.

TMI, right? haha! Okay, I'll shut up now. Bye!

 

[HeatherJay]

Skip the boxers, briefs and boxer briefs. If I'm in the mood to "dress down" to be sexy for my wife...I wear a g-string.

At least God's blessed me with the physique (for now) to get away with it.

TMI, right? haha! Okay, I'll shut up now. Bye!

I can't think of a single man that I would encourage to wear a g string for any reason, least of all to be sexy (well, Jon Bon Jovi could pull it off, of course, but I still don't think I'd recommend it).

But if your wife likes it, rock on.

 

[KSUCE03]

I can't think of a single man that I would encourage to wear a g string for any reason, least of all to be sexy (well, Jon Bon Jovi could pull it off, of course, but I still don't think I'd recommend it).

But if your wife likes it, rock on.

Definately skip the string, but bikinis..... that's not so bad, am I right?

 

[HeatherJay]

Definately skip the string, but bikinis..... that's not so bad, am I right?

LOL, it's sort of like a manly man being able to pull off wearing a pink shirt...it takes quite a guy to do it well. The same thing applies to skimpy undies...

 

[Redguard]

LOL, it's sort of like a manly man being able to pull off wearing a pink shirt...it takes quite a guy to do it well.

Well, I hope I'm "quite a guy".

I have a pink shirt... like the one in the pic below:

I sometimes wear it with one of my grey suits.

Is this the kind of pink shirt you're talking about, or are you talking about a tight hot pink golf shirt or something?

 

[HeatherJay]

Well, I hope I'm "quite a guy".

I have a pink shirt... like the one in the pic below:

I sometimes wear it with one of my grey suits.

Is this the kind of pink shirt you're talking about, or are you talking about a tight hot pink golf shirt or something?

...tight hot pink golf shirt..

Okay, what were you saying? Oh yeah, well, the pink shirt doesn't lie. It sounds like you are, in fact, able to pull such a look off. That settles it, I suppose.

Redguard = Manly Man/Quite A Guy

Now, there's still the question of the undergarment issue, though. I'm quite sure that tighty whiteys are like kryptonite to the Pink Shirt Manly Man...

So make sure your drawers are straight...failure to do so could be catastrophic. Don't say I didn't warn you.

 

[gracefaith]

Well, I hope I'm "quite a guy".

I have a pink shirt... I sometimes wear it with one of my grey suits.

Yes, but do you have those cuff-links? I give sexy fashion bonus points to guys who wear cuff-links.

 

[HeatherJay]

Yes, but do you have those cuff-links? I give sexy fashion bonus points to guys who wear cuff-links.

They ARE nice cuff links...I agree.

That said, my husband has owned one pair of generic cuff links in his entire 36 year exsistence.

 

[Redguard]

Yes, but do you have those cuff-links? I give sexy fashion bonus points to guys who wear cuff-links.

I would VERY MUCH love to have my own collection of customized cuff-links one day, with my initials engraved in them and everything.

I'm just not at that stage in my life yet, financially. I think that I might be able to start showing those off once I'm in my 30s or something.

 

[paleodoxy]

I can't think of a single man that I would encourage to wear a g string for any reason, least of all to be sexy
But if your wife likes it, rock on.

Yes...but I'm not your average man. I'm one HOT dude. (Just ask my wife.)

lol

How's that for humility, huh?

Actually, I used "g-string" for lack of proper terminology. I sometimes wear those real skimpy (and sexy-colored) underwear for men. (The official name escapes me.)

 

[HeatherJay]

Yes...but I'm not your average man. I'm one HOT dude. (Just ask my wife.)

lol

How's that for humility, huh?

Actually, I used "g-string" for lack of proper terminology. I sometimes wear those real skimpy (and sexy-colored) underwear for men. (The official name escapes me.)

Well, 'one hot dude' could probably pull of such fancy undies...sounds like you're good to go.

 

[c1ners]

I think my husband is sexy when he is wearing the see through white boxer shorts with a heart on them that I bought him last Valentine's Day.
Actually, any fun undies will do.
The more outragious, the better!

 

[MominTX2004]

Yes, I do, I have the outfits for going out and the outfits I'm too shy to wear out for at home. Some women can wear these outfits, but I'm too modest, so I'll put it on on the weekend for him, although I can't right now since I'm pregnant.

 

[John Steele]

I am a guy but I'll respond for my wife. Recently, she has started to dress a little sexier outside of the house. She wears tighter pants (ie - skinny jeans and leggings), short dresses (but not too short), and very sexy underwear (ie thongs and push up bras) because she knows that I like them. Read this next part carefully!!!! She is not a size 2 or 4 or 6. She's about a 16/18 so there is a little extra in the middle. It took some time, but she finally accepted the fact that the only one she needed to worry about when it came to dressing sexy was me! She knows I love it when she wears tights pants and push up bras, so she wears them for me. She grins every time I walk up behind her at home and pinch her behind because I can see it now. This has also motivated her to lose a little weight. She is working out more and watching what she eats. We both realize that she's never going to be a size 6 again, but she can still be healthy and happy. She is now happy with what she wears because she knows I am thinking about how she looks in those leggings and she's not worried about what other people think. As far as sexy clothes at home goes. She wears mostly leggings or workout shorts/capris with a tank top around the house at night. I know I mentioned this before, but she wears thongs daily unless it's that time of the month. She'll normally take off the pants to come to bed but leave the tank top on. I can't tell you sexy it is to know your wife is in a thong and a tank top right next to you. Obviously, our sex life has gotten better because of these sexier choices. Ladies, if your husband wants you to dress a little sexier to spice things up, then do it. Now don't go inappropriate and wear a dress that barely covers your behind (unless it's at home) but there's nothing wrong with acknowledging your husband's wishes and doing your best to meet those wishes. He will in turn pay more attention to you and do more of those romantic and non manly tasks you may be wanting him too. Dress a little sexy and see what happens!! Better yet, walk around the house naked (no kids present) and see what happens!!

 

[Dave-W]

Serious zombie thread ...

 

[SgtBen]

My wife EmmaCat is a Fundie so she dresses very modestly. But what I find so sexy about her is her mind and her heart and just herself and her love for the Lord.

I had relations with women before (I'm no angel) and she had not, of course and the hardest thing for me when we were dating was keeping my hands off her and behaving.

All she had to say about that was, "Well, at least one of will know what we're doing on our wedding night!"

 

[Martyr's Crown]

My wife EmmaCat is a Fundie so she dresses very modestly. But what I find so sexy about her is her mind and her heart and just herself and her love for the Lord.

I had relations with women before (I'm no angel) and she had not, of course and the hardest thing for me when we were dating was keeping my hands off her and behaving.

All she had to say about that was, "Well, at least one of will know what we're doing on our wedding night!"

1. Peter 3, 3-4: "Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel; But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price."


And perhaps the wedding night will be something very special and new for the both of you, since it will be a new experience for the two of you when doing it together the first time. Continue waiting together untill after you are married! God bless your relationship and may you grow stronger together in Christ!

 

[Dave-W]

Continue waiting together untill after you are married!

Um - he is already married.
Read his post again.