People have marriages that fail because they are flawed human beings.
They also likely viewed marriage as the key to happiness but only God can be that. Marriage is work and service to the person you married. It is not for for you to become happy. If both people enter marriage with the goal to serve their spouse and put their spouse's needs ahead of theirs, then it can't help but be happy. However, we are not allowed to say "hey, you aren't serving me so I am going to stop serving you." Then it isn't really service because you are expecting to be paid.
They also likely viewed marriage as the key to happiness but only God can be that. Marriage is work and service to the person you married. It is not for for you to become happy. If both people enter marriage with the goal to serve their spouse and put their spouse's needs ahead of theirs, then it can't help but be happy. However, we are not allowed to say "hey, you aren't serving me so I am going to stop serving you." Then it isn't really service because you are expecting to be paid.
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