To pray to God to fix things we ourselves are too lazy or lack the knowledge to fix. With zero attempt made on our part to better educate ourselves or fix problems. Is an incorrect format of prayer.
i found the opposite to be true.
Ask and you shall be given does not indicate any labour whatsoever.
i asked The Lord for a new heart years ago already and then thought foolishly that religion had it right and i had to do and do, and rule and rule, just like Scripture teaches, i got ensnared terribly by my own set standards.
So on the contrary to what you say, it was not until i let Jesus Himself teach me to break with the input of my flesh, and satan whispering his lies in my ears, and the world 's ways and teachings ruling my inner world of being, that Jesus was able to renew my heart and set me free from those sins that had enslaved me.
It wasn't until the word took me on a personal ride that i came to realise that all of us have been trained in this world and by this world. i came to realise that much of my life of faith in Jesus had been hindered by my rational mind, educated by the world, it turned out to be one of my biggest enemy, (and went down in my life very much the same fashion as Babylon does in Revelation 18.)
This was the manner the light of light revealed to me. That faith in God's love needs to be living and active in Christ, and not in obedience to religious rules, values or morals, but that such was the unfaithful prostitute ruling me right inside my own heart. Such freedom when the word brought me freedom from those spiritual realities, living in my inner world of being.
All of this came about because of prayer that Christ Himself taught me, for all that stood in the way between Him and me would be taken away by the power of His loving truth coming to life within me through the works of the living word dwelling in me. And He did it and does it every day again since then.
Yet to learn to love true, we face far more opposition than i dared to believe possible. No one had ever taught me to understand that The Word had to become Alive within me, and that i would have to crucify myself in sin - time and again - before i would find newness of life with Him and in Him. i did not realise that it is His life we want, not our own. Yet it is all written.
So rather than doing things because we are compelled by our own values, rules and laws, those inner kings ruling, it is best to
stop doing anything to improve yourself by yourself. Rather pour out your heart before Him, lay it completely bare, and let Him put you back together, with you watching on, rather than interfering in His process of salvation. i think you be amazed to see that He has to do all the work in you, otherwise it is not eternal.
It has been a lesson hard learned in my life.
Once He has rebuild you a free person. That means you have truly as free will, and you can choose not to sin, no matter how much sin entices, then you know that you are safely build in His loving truth and that you will, like Him and all the Saints, endure forever.
For i know that in my religious spirit i have not been invited to the Feast, in that lay my down fall time and again. Rather i have been set free from such nonsense always demanding adherence to rules and laws, always have to do. Always been ruled by thoughts and feelings that made my life miserable.
i have learned to trust prayer in Jesus completely, for i know that when we ask in His Spirit it is always yes, and it is always already done for me. The finished work of Jesus as my reward for trusting His loving truth. He would set me free from my sins and make me a believer that loves God and neighbour. Jesus has not disappointed me but loving build me into His loving truth. i will always love him for doing that.
Peace.
The Living Word Saves
Meeting Jesus down in my deepest Pit
brought an end to all my inner pain
For lovingly The Word made me fit
to have my Good Life back again.
First The Farmer pulled up my weeds
digging up the dirt and rocks within me
then lovingly sowing His Good Seeds
in time harvesting me most abundantly!
Yes The Word's Voice in Spirit of Love
The Living Word brought me under His care
His love dwelling within me from up above
His everlasting Good Life with me to share.
So please do from your pit walk away
also farming His Good Life in your soul
finding New Life in God's Truth today
The LIVING WORD your constant goal.