My husband and I recently signed the papers but he's still sleeping in the same room as me and my 2 kids while waiting for his previously rented out flat to be ready in 3 months before he moves out.
He was the one who initiated the divorce as we were fighting too much and he said that I don't give him the love and intimacy he desired. During the 5 year marriage he had committed outrage of modesty, watched & masturbated to inappropriate content, committed adultery with a co-worker and when he had enough of me not talking to him nicely, he initiated the divorce. He also developed feelings for that co-worker who is also in the midst of a divorce.
Recently he kept wanting to hug and kiss me and wants me to do the same and said he's doing this because he still loves and misses me (not because he wants to reconcile). I refused to hug him and he kept crying like a baby. My husband and I recently signed the papers but he's still sleeping in the same room as me and my 2 kids while waiting for his previously rented out flat to be ready in 3 months before he moves out.
What should I do? I don't want to be hurt by hugging him yet knowing he has feelings for others and he will leave in 3 months. Should I distant & protect myself or should I continue to hug him until he moves out? I told him I'll sleep outside but he said he will follow me whenever I go and kept crying but yet he initiated the divorce.
He was the one who initiated the divorce as we were fighting too much and he said that I don't give him the love and intimacy he desired. During the 5 year marriage he had committed outrage of modesty, watched & masturbated to inappropriate content, committed adultery with a co-worker and when he had enough of me not talking to him nicely, he initiated the divorce. He also developed feelings for that co-worker who is also in the midst of a divorce.
Recently he kept wanting to hug and kiss me and wants me to do the same and said he's doing this because he still loves and misses me (not because he wants to reconcile). I refused to hug him and he kept crying like a baby. My husband and I recently signed the papers but he's still sleeping in the same room as me and my 2 kids while waiting for his previously rented out flat to be ready in 3 months before he moves out.
What should I do? I don't want to be hurt by hugging him yet knowing he has feelings for others and he will leave in 3 months. Should I distant & protect myself or should I continue to hug him until he moves out? I told him I'll sleep outside but he said he will follow me whenever I go and kept crying but yet he initiated the divorce.
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