That's a great (and realistic) example, I think.Hypothetical example:
Husband is a devoted hockey fan. Watches games with his wife (also a devoted hockey fan) every Sunday morning-- it's their "us" time. Now wife wants to go to church Sunday mornings. Husband doesn't stop her, but is sad that they don't have that Sunday morning "us" time any more.
I believe it depends on how a person perceives God (like just about anything we're trying to navigate our responses to). Personally.....I see Him to be like a lot of human parents that long for their children (His creation) to all get along in harmony (and that He doesn't have "favorites").
Our greatest instruction is to love others (and God)....right? I don't think those are to be set in competition with one another but to, instead, be carried out simultaneously.
In a case like that....I think what would please God would be for the wife to figure out a way to spend time with her new Christian community on another day so she doesn't have to disrupt her traditional time spent with her husband (which is only a season). To my mind....and the way you presented the scenario....that husband isn't being demanding or controlling (or even asking for much)....so that time and tradition should be honored. Don't you agree? Doesn't that go along with the idea that "they will know us by our love" and that without words some will be convinced to believe by our conduct (not that we are trying to manipulate others)?
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