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There was a time in my life when I desired to marry. I prayed for my future husband (off & on)
In the recent years, however, this desire has diminished dramatically.
It's kind of funny, because in those times I desired marriage I actually prayed that the Lord would take the desire away from me if it wasn't in His will or until the time is right for my future hubby to come into my life. Perhaps He just answered my prayers.
The way the world is now I just don't desire marriage as much as I used to. My own parents are divorced. I've seen people my age or younger than me already get married and divorced. I've seen the seeming perfect marriage on the outside fall apart due to infidelity. The woman didn't have a clue anything was wrong. It's sad. It's tragic.
I used to whole heartily believe that if God was the center of the marriage then it would last. I'm not sure I believe this statement anymore. Things happen. People change. Nobody wakes up one day and says "I'll think I'll get divorced today" ya know. It isn't planned.
I don't know, the more I think about it, the more it's just not worth it to me. Perhaps I've just seen too much or just have simply given up.
Thoughts? Comments? Has this happened to anyone else?
In the recent years, however, this desire has diminished dramatically.
It's kind of funny, because in those times I desired marriage I actually prayed that the Lord would take the desire away from me if it wasn't in His will or until the time is right for my future hubby to come into my life. Perhaps He just answered my prayers.
The way the world is now I just don't desire marriage as much as I used to. My own parents are divorced. I've seen people my age or younger than me already get married and divorced. I've seen the seeming perfect marriage on the outside fall apart due to infidelity. The woman didn't have a clue anything was wrong. It's sad. It's tragic.
I used to whole heartily believe that if God was the center of the marriage then it would last. I'm not sure I believe this statement anymore. Things happen. People change. Nobody wakes up one day and says "I'll think I'll get divorced today" ya know. It isn't planned.
I don't know, the more I think about it, the more it's just not worth it to me. Perhaps I've just seen too much or just have simply given up.
Thoughts? Comments? Has this happened to anyone else?