- Nov 14, 2017
- 9,773
- 5,636
- Country
- United States
- Faith
- Christian
- Marital Status
- Single
- Politics
- US-Others
Hi there,
I have come across an unusual position on marriage.
The claim is that scripture doesn't prescribe that marriage begins with a ceremony but rather cohabitation between seriously committed partners.
On the face of it would seem to have scriptural support considering Adam and Eve, Isaac and Rebecca, Jacob and Leah and Rachel, Ruth and Boaz etc.
Now I have had to face the issue of how to handle new converts previously unmarried and living together in a committed relationship - we would simply take them to the registry office and sign papers if they did not want to separate long enough to organize a wedding.
But if the scripture does not seem to make reference to God requiring a marriage ceremony then our insistence on one might be unjust.
Your thoughts on this are appreciated, fornication then would be unfaithfully violating a committed relationship.
We know that Jesus attended the wedding a Canna but we don't know if the participants were already cohabiting.
I need to say that such a position of defining marriage in this way does not sit well with me at all but mounting a scriptural argument to refute such a claim would be very helpful.
We know that Jesus attended the wedding a Canna but we don't know if the participants were already cohabiting.
We know that Jesus attended the wedding a Canna but we don't know if the participants were already cohabiting.
[/QUOTE]
True ... but that does not refute the overall teaching on the matter of covenant marriage.
Genesis 2:24
Berean Study Bible
For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh.
Many many many times the covenant of marriage is used symbolically as being a pure covenant relationship .... including our relationship with the Lord .... and also on the flip side .... is considered ... fornication if the purity of that "marriage" is not intact. It's used as an example ALL OVER the bible.
2nd Corinthians 11
1I hope you will bear with a little of my foolishness, but you are already doing that. 2I am jealous for you with a godly jealousy.
For I promised you to one husband, to present you as a pure virgin to Christ.3I am afraid, however, that just as Eve was deceived by the serpent’s cunning, your minds may be led astray from your simple and pure devotion to Christ.
4For if someone comes and proclaims a Jesus other than the One we proclaimed, or if you receive a different spirit than the One you received, or a different gospel than the one you accepted, you put up with it way too easily.
The basis for this view is the fact that sexual intercourse between a husband and wife is the ultimate fulfillment of the “one flesh” principle (Genesis 2:24; Matthew 19:5; Ephesians 5:31). In this sense, sexual intercourse is the final “seal” on a marriage covenant.
Is a ceremony required? No.
It is sex between a man and a woman that consummates a marriage.
Marriage is to be a joyous occasion and most people choose to celebrate it with a ceremony ... back then .... and now.
Upvote
0