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one of my cousins died in the phillippines. and his brother, a young one about the age of 5 or 6( i dont no, cuz i have 40 cousins, and i dont no them all) liked him very much, he has gone out of control, and he thinks that by killing himself that he will meet him in heaven, and i cant do anything cuz i am not there, what suggestions can i give to my family there that will hopefully calm him down?
 

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Have them keep a close eye on him and don't let him spend too much time alone.
 
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psycmajor said:
:Tell him about Jesus!!


That's that main thing.. Jesus.. He needs to realize he needs to live his life down here for Christ if he wants to see anyone again.

visit this site: www.behindthebadge.net

There is a lot of good information on here about the reality of suicide.
 
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You're not there, but God is. You can't do anything, but God can.

Pray!
 
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please forgive me if i misunderstood your post, but are you saying that a relative of your, a young boy of 5 or 6 years old is actually contemplating suicide?

You MUST urge your family to seek proffessional help for this young boy, immediately!... it is natural that as he has lost someone he loved very much, he is experiencing an overwhelming grief, but the adults have to attempt to get all the help that they can for the children in such cases.

Please encourage your family to seek proffessional help for your young cousin.
 
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