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Today me and my partner went to see an acquaintance at church that is critically ill. His name is Jeff. We don't know alot about him, other than he originally was from up north, comes from a much more high church type Lutheranism, and seems to have little family, besides having a husband who is a highway patrolman, and doesn't come to church with him. Jeff was one of the folks that helped stimulate an increase in liturgical renewal in our congregation.
We thought it was a good idea to see him and let him know that he is loved, because I can remember years ago when I hit my head really bad and nobody in my old orthodox church came to see me, even though the doctors were telling me very scary things (I had possible brain bleeding). But when I got there, I was in shock just seeing him, a big but gentle man being kept alive on a respirator and a dialysis machine. Tiffany ended up talking to him (the nurse said he could hear us, but he wouldn't be able to respond) and she said alot of stuff that I wish I could have. I just said "God bless you, Jeff". I'm not sure how appropriate that was, I have rarely dealt with these sorts of situations, before. How can God bless someone who is on death's door and likely will die? But I know if there is anyone deserving of blessing in my life, it is Jeff, because people like him have been quiet blessings in my own life.
I can sort of understand why people have prayer books now. Sometimes we literally end up a loss for words... but you feel like you have to say something.
We thought it was a good idea to see him and let him know that he is loved, because I can remember years ago when I hit my head really bad and nobody in my old orthodox church came to see me, even though the doctors were telling me very scary things (I had possible brain bleeding). But when I got there, I was in shock just seeing him, a big but gentle man being kept alive on a respirator and a dialysis machine. Tiffany ended up talking to him (the nurse said he could hear us, but he wouldn't be able to respond) and she said alot of stuff that I wish I could have. I just said "God bless you, Jeff". I'm not sure how appropriate that was, I have rarely dealt with these sorts of situations, before. How can God bless someone who is on death's door and likely will die? But I know if there is anyone deserving of blessing in my life, it is Jeff, because people like him have been quiet blessings in my own life.
I can sort of understand why people have prayer books now. Sometimes we literally end up a loss for words... but you feel like you have to say something.
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