I have always wondered why the Bible tells very little of the dating or courtship process...women/wives were treated more as commodities or deals made between families and compatibility or attraction was not even on the table.
Wives just learned to love their husbands, regardless if he was short or had a bad habit, and vice versa. Women had only the nurturing role. A lot of arranged marriages occurred without thought given to how the women felt about her new husband. Conflicting personalities were not even considered.
There was no "Match.com" or personal ads, you were stuck with...and...you LEARNED to like them. You just took the hand that was dealt to you...that's it.
But now, compatibility (and I'm not talking about Christian compatibility), was a non-issue as people (esp. women) were stuck with whom ever.
So now that we're into the modern day of dating, there's been a major change and women now in the work force and also many desiring NOT to ever marry....again or not at all. Or if they are looking for someone to marry...they are constantly swiping left and right to find the "perfect" marital partner...most of which doesn't exist.
But the Bible doesn't really address the issue of compatibility. It just addressed those currently married.
Thoughts?
Wives just learned to love their husbands, regardless if he was short or had a bad habit, and vice versa. Women had only the nurturing role. A lot of arranged marriages occurred without thought given to how the women felt about her new husband. Conflicting personalities were not even considered.
There was no "Match.com" or personal ads, you were stuck with...and...you LEARNED to like them. You just took the hand that was dealt to you...that's it.
But now, compatibility (and I'm not talking about Christian compatibility), was a non-issue as people (esp. women) were stuck with whom ever.
So now that we're into the modern day of dating, there's been a major change and women now in the work force and also many desiring NOT to ever marry....again or not at all. Or if they are looking for someone to marry...they are constantly swiping left and right to find the "perfect" marital partner...most of which doesn't exist.
But the Bible doesn't really address the issue of compatibility. It just addressed those currently married.
Thoughts?