Hi there,
I just found this subforum, and I am a new single parent, for about 6 months, since me and stbex separated. However, I was sort of a single parent before this because was unable, unwilling to really help with the kids. Partially because of mental health issues, partially choice.
We have been battling custody issues for a few months. I want him to have ample access to the kids under supervision. I have good reasons for this. He finally conceded when the medical records came in to his lawyer. Now he is angry and says that he's not going to see the kids at all if he has to be supervised.
To top this all off, he came over this w/e and told my four year old daughter that he is not going to see her or spend time with her anymore, unless its a holiday. She was so upset, because she was excited to see him (he hasn't been over for two weeks) and she thought he was here to see her. She couldn't understand and cried for half an hour. I was livid
I told him he was selfish and was putting his pride above his kids. He told me that he didn't think so. I know he heard a voice tell him that he shouldn't see his kids anymore. He thinks that was God. He says he feels peace about it. My family says maybe it's for the best, but I am still very angry. My heart hurts for my kids. They miss him and want to see him. It seems that he doesn't care. Anyone else have this experience?
How do you handle it?
Spinderella
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I just found this subforum, and I am a new single parent, for about 6 months, since me and stbex separated. However, I was sort of a single parent before this because was unable, unwilling to really help with the kids. Partially because of mental health issues, partially choice.
We have been battling custody issues for a few months. I want him to have ample access to the kids under supervision. I have good reasons for this. He finally conceded when the medical records came in to his lawyer. Now he is angry and says that he's not going to see the kids at all if he has to be supervised.
To top this all off, he came over this w/e and told my four year old daughter that he is not going to see her or spend time with her anymore, unless its a holiday. She was so upset, because she was excited to see him (he hasn't been over for two weeks) and she thought he was here to see her. She couldn't understand and cried for half an hour. I was livid
I told him he was selfish and was putting his pride above his kids. He told me that he didn't think so. I know he heard a voice tell him that he shouldn't see his kids anymore. He thinks that was God. He says he feels peace about it. My family says maybe it's for the best, but I am still very angry. My heart hurts for my kids. They miss him and want to see him. It seems that he doesn't care. Anyone else have this experience?
How do you handle it?
Spinderella
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