GC said:
I admit to frustration when I speak to trusted believers about what I've been shown and they shrug their shoulders or worse mock it. I feel sorry for them, because the Lord is speaking and it is a serious matter they do not at least pray and seek His wisdom over what is said. Other times I have to pray for forgivness as I get angry that I am following the Lord's instruction to inform and few listen and few care.
I can understand when forum strangers pop in and discredit visions, but when Christian friends do it in person, it's just sad. It leaves a person wondering whether their fellowship is seeking after God as much as they say they are.
At the simplest core of prophetic dreams, God is speaking to the believer. Even if the method seems questionable, or the amount of trust a person puts in their visions seems too strong, the simple fact is that the dreamer had a strong impression that God was speaking to them about a topic. And that is not something to be discouraged.
GC said:
How many feel the weight of hearing from God and doing their level best to interpret gets heavy?
I have had some that were heavy in themselves, weighing for a couple months -- not depression but a sobering view of future suffering.
Since most of mine have seemed to be about intercession needs, the responsibility weighs more heavily that I'd expect. There were very few that I felt I was instructed to talk with someone about, but many that I was just supposed to pray over and trust that my words activated the needed response.
I wished I could just unload many in the way one would unload after a stressful day, but some of these felt like unfounded gossip. And others I knew would not benefit anyone in telling -- but telling could be an attempt to elevate myself, or create a stir, create conversation.
I do wonder though if I might be squelching some that need to be heard.
A couple times when I did feel it proper to tell someone, they were involved in the situation and not necessarily Christian -- so saying, "hey I had a dream" put my own reputation at risk.
I would guess that the experience is different for each of us. It's unique to have a central place like this where believers who are involved with dreams and visions have gathered.