So, I have this ugly custody thing going on. My ex is doing everything in her power to sabotage my relationship with my children including violating court orders, denial of court ordered visitation . . . and I keep doing the right things, but it hurts. Like tonight, I was supposed to see my kids and she just skipped the visitation. I left a 30 second skype message to my kids, telling them I love them and hope to see them soon, half an hour after she was supposed to have them there. I have checked and watched and now it is two and a half hours past & I need to go to bed, but my heart hurts. I miss my kids. I know she can't break the law forever & eventually the judge will get sick of it & me being law abiding and patient will pay off. . . but meanwhile, is there any place for dads? There are like pages and pages of resources for mothers going through custody things, but for fathers it seems to all be attorneys offering services/ trying to sell a booklet/ 10 tips lists. . .. I guess what I'd like to find is like a message board or a group that meets like AA only for disenfranchised dads. Is there anything out there?