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Hey peeps! How's it going?
I've been dealing with a coworker who's on my team that has been really getting on my last nerve because of his behavior. He's a grown adult, around the same age as I, but his poor attitude and crudeness reminds me of a disobedient teenager. Grown adults in a professional workplace setting should be able to control their behavior, especially around others. However, he can control it when upper management is around, but along side his peers it gets really annoying to me. Others seem to laugh it off, yet it bothers me most because he claims to be a man of God and is one of those who keep the Sabbath and has very strict rules for this modern world.
I don't know what Bible they study, but if he's such a biblical man, why do his actions speak a much different tone? This is the same guy who tried to convince me to start following his religion about a year ago and I almost did until I took a step back from it and sought out my own answers, which I am glad I did. Naturally he thinks his religious practices are the best and I can tell he holds himself higher than anyone else because he makes comments about other religions and pokes fun of them.
Here's his philosophy:
1. All cross symbols are pagan.
2. Most holidays like Christmas and Easter are not biblical. He does acknowledge Passover though, but I think the day differs for them.
3. He doesn't consume any "unclean" meats.
4. Members to his church must be invited and interviewed before they are welcomed in.
5. He does not believe in the Holy Spirit.
6. He does not believe there's an actual Hell.
7. Upon the 2nd coming everyone will be given another chance to be in Heaven.
8. Going to church on Sunday is not biblical.
9. Saturday is the Holy Day. He refuses to work on Saturday.
10. A book he gave me to read has been removed from print because the author realized it was false information.
And I forget all the rest, but you get the idea. Now, I can see why he's like he is. In my opinion he's being deceived and doesn't know it and can't find peace. This may be why he's always agitated, crude and annoying.
The problem is I have to deal with him for over eight hours a day, five days a week! He's like the "loud office guy" who's always shutting his desk drawers real loudly, shuffling around at his desk constantly being noisy, tries to avoid work as much as he can, is not a team player and does what he wants to do, if that makes sense.
I've thought about looking for another job because as each day passes and the wiser I become about the actual truth of religion, the more it bothers me. If I were to approach him about anything that would go against his beliefs I know him, he'd laugh it off and think I was crazy. So I'm never going down that path for it would be a useless venture and only make being around him worse because then he'd have animosity towards me. I just try and ignore him (which is impossible) and he seems to get the upper hand on everybody because he thinks he's the greatest man of knowledge and in favor of God more so than anyone else. He doesn't boast about his religion, but if the subject come up he does have a tendency to bash other religions and laugh like they are non-sense. He is an intelligent person so it's difficult to argue with him so nobody tries and he'll wind up with the last word. One of those guys.
Maybe I'm just writing this to vent but any advice might help me deal with people like this.
I've been dealing with a coworker who's on my team that has been really getting on my last nerve because of his behavior. He's a grown adult, around the same age as I, but his poor attitude and crudeness reminds me of a disobedient teenager. Grown adults in a professional workplace setting should be able to control their behavior, especially around others. However, he can control it when upper management is around, but along side his peers it gets really annoying to me. Others seem to laugh it off, yet it bothers me most because he claims to be a man of God and is one of those who keep the Sabbath and has very strict rules for this modern world.
I don't know what Bible they study, but if he's such a biblical man, why do his actions speak a much different tone? This is the same guy who tried to convince me to start following his religion about a year ago and I almost did until I took a step back from it and sought out my own answers, which I am glad I did. Naturally he thinks his religious practices are the best and I can tell he holds himself higher than anyone else because he makes comments about other religions and pokes fun of them.
Here's his philosophy:
1. All cross symbols are pagan.
2. Most holidays like Christmas and Easter are not biblical. He does acknowledge Passover though, but I think the day differs for them.
3. He doesn't consume any "unclean" meats.
4. Members to his church must be invited and interviewed before they are welcomed in.
5. He does not believe in the Holy Spirit.
6. He does not believe there's an actual Hell.
7. Upon the 2nd coming everyone will be given another chance to be in Heaven.
8. Going to church on Sunday is not biblical.
9. Saturday is the Holy Day. He refuses to work on Saturday.
10. A book he gave me to read has been removed from print because the author realized it was false information.
And I forget all the rest, but you get the idea. Now, I can see why he's like he is. In my opinion he's being deceived and doesn't know it and can't find peace. This may be why he's always agitated, crude and annoying.
The problem is I have to deal with him for over eight hours a day, five days a week! He's like the "loud office guy" who's always shutting his desk drawers real loudly, shuffling around at his desk constantly being noisy, tries to avoid work as much as he can, is not a team player and does what he wants to do, if that makes sense.
I've thought about looking for another job because as each day passes and the wiser I become about the actual truth of religion, the more it bothers me. If I were to approach him about anything that would go against his beliefs I know him, he'd laugh it off and think I was crazy. So I'm never going down that path for it would be a useless venture and only make being around him worse because then he'd have animosity towards me. I just try and ignore him (which is impossible) and he seems to get the upper hand on everybody because he thinks he's the greatest man of knowledge and in favor of God more so than anyone else. He doesn't boast about his religion, but if the subject come up he does have a tendency to bash other religions and laugh like they are non-sense. He is an intelligent person so it's difficult to argue with him so nobody tries and he'll wind up with the last word. One of those guys.
Maybe I'm just writing this to vent but any advice might help me deal with people like this.