I must say that a lot of the 'convertitis' hyperdox oddness that annoys me is predominantly a Millenial thing. I work with Millenials, my wife works with and trains Millenials at the hospital as new nurses, and I go to Church and have to deal with Millenials all the time. I will say that generation is utterly bizarre. I find myself at age 42 (soon to be 43) sounding like my grandpa used to sound when I was a kid. Millenials tend to be helpless, needy, snowflakey, unrealistic, and overly confident about their abilities while paradoxically needing their hands held every step of the way. But at the same time they want to sign up for everything, be involved in everything, and they glom on to extremes. I don't meet many moderate Millenials. They tend to become Catholics who think they're more Catholic than the Pope (which, I guess with Pope Francis is pretty easy!), or Orthodox who instantly think they're St. Seraphim of Sarov. On the other hand, the other Millenials seem to be victimized and liberal. No middle ground half the time.
One thing that drives me bonkers about Millenials is that they don't seem to operate on the respect principle. They don't value years or experience or the concept of quiet gaining of wisdom. At my job, I work with two millennials at my grade level. Both young girls who are clueless. True, when one is a newbie, clueless is often understandable, but what concerns me is that they have no work ethic and don't want to be challenged to a hard day's work or building their own body of units of study. They want to go to Pinterest and Teachers Pay Teachers and just TAKE something someone else already made. They're the Siri, Pinterest, Instagram, Facebook people. I started teaching in the 1990's, and we were taught to create, design, think outside the box, BUILD. These folks are not builders. They're maintenance. They want a script and prefabricated ease.
My wife sees the same thing with new millennial nurses. Following simple directions or critically thinking is not their strength. They're extremely honest about what they don't know. And what they don't know is sizable!
Millenials don't seem to be able to learn and gain wisdom from their elders at work. They don't look to the "old-timers" who know so much. They run to Pinterest and take a shot in the dark. Throw everything at the wall, hope it sticks. Then they're shocked when my kids are ten times brighter, more resourceful, and my test scores smoke them at year's end. And yet still......Pinterest.
Part of me, forgive my bluntness, just wants millennials to do like I would do at church----sit down, shut up, pray, listen, watch, sing, learn. Stay quiet. Just learn. Just grow in faith. Respect the folks already there. Wait 3-4 years (or more!) and then ask if there is any way they can contribute. Don't walk into a parish, guns spiritually blazing, and start wanting to do book studies (as if a 30-year-old or 20-something should be!), be a reader, be a teacher, and all this other stuff. I hate seeing newbies think they're long in the beard.
Not living in the 20th Century like we Gen X'ers I think is a huge weakness. Ask college students what they think about communism, they say in large majorities who awesome it sounds! Free health care! Free college! Pensions! Yipee! They weren't around to see Lenin, Stalin, Pol Pot, Mao, and all the other psychopaths purge millions.
Ok, now that I sound like an utter grump, I'll stop and duck, preparing for the barrage of tomatoes, heads of lettuce and cabbage, apples, and banana peels thrown at me in retribution! LOL