Contradiction between the bible and PD?

[BenCollyer91]

The bible says that God gives us a desire for marriage and relationship, and he is also sovereign over the childhood trauma that causes people to develop personality disorders, is it not evil to allow the trauma and also give someone a desire to be in a relationship with a partner?

 

[Rescued One]

Do you think God intends for every person to marry?

 

[BenCollyer91]

Do you think God intends for every person to marry?

Indeed not, from my understanding of scripture it seems the determinant of wether God intends for someone to marry is if they desire to marry or not, im open to being wrong on that, since I desire to have a wife I feel he wills that

 

[Rescued One]

Indeed not, from my understanding of scripture it seems the determinant of wether God intends for someone to marry is if they desire to marry or not, im open to being wrong on that, since I desire to have a wife I feel he wills that

Oh. Well, so many people desire that, but then they marry and have children and end up with a diaster. And I don't think the apostle Paul was married, so I figured God didn't necessarily expect it. But in church it seems most people marry, so I think single people feel awkward.

As for PD, how many in the past must have had such, but weren't diagnosed. I came from two parents who had unhappy childhoods, and whose children weren't happy. My husband tried to deny it, but he came from an unhappy home, too. God willing, I want to reach out to people and make a difference.

 

[Tolworth John]

The bible says that God gives us a desire for marriage and relationship, and he is also sovereign over the childhood trauma that causes people to develop personality disorders, is it not evil to allow the trauma and also give someone a desire to be in a relationship with a partner?

Yes God is sovereign, but he does not step in to correct our abuse of the freedom he gives us.
He does not prevent a drunken driver from killing pedestrians or violent father's beating their children etc etc
Sin brings consequences which can be life changing for the sufferer.
That is not Gods fault.