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Romanseight2005
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It's different because those two things are limited and specific and extreme cases. When one says their vows the idea that one of those things would be included in "for worse" never enters their thinking.
If you are even considering abuse or adultery as a possibility on your wedding day when you make your vows, there no way on Earth you should be getting married.
It sort of like how "except for blaspheming the Holy Spirit" doesn't make the fact that God forgives ALL our sins untrue. It's such an extreme case that it doesn't really enter into the equation, until it actually happens.
It's not that you think it will happen, but if you research what happens to others first, you can lay out a plan for those possibilities, with the thought that you don't think it will happen, but if it does, kind of thing. People do this in business relationships all of the time. They won't go into business with someone they don't trust, but that doesn't mean that they are foolish enough to not lay out a practical plan for common things that happen to other businesses. I am saying that just because a marriage is more personal, and is a covenant, doesn't mean it should be exempt from common sense wisdom.
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