I have a different opinion. I dont think Aspergers is an excuse for us to not do what will help us be all we're created to be. The Word of God is pretty clear that as a member of Christ's body we are called to be part of a community. In practice, I dont feel like shaking hands or going or socializing sometimes, but I've grown to realize that's spiritual warfare of evil trying to hold me back from glorifying God. As iron sharpens iron is so true. Other Christians speaking into my life and holding me accountable has been the best way to make sure I'm living in the Spirit, walking with God.
1Cor12 The eye cannot say to the hand, “I don’t need you!” And the head cannot say to the feet, “I don’t need you!” 22 On the contrary, those parts of the body that seem to be weaker are indispensable, 23 and the parts that we think are less honorable we treat with special honor. And the parts that are unpresentable are treated with special modesty, 24 while our presentable parts need no special treatment. But God has put the body together, giving greater honor to the parts that lacked it, 25 so that there should be no division in the body, but that its parts should have equal concern for each other. 26 If one part suffers, every part suffers with it; if one part is honored, every part rejoices with it. 27 Now you are the body of Christ, and each one of you is a part of it.
Hi Jesus Freak.
I agree with you that Asperger's is not an excuse. It has no need to be one. A diagnosis of Asperger's is information about a person's way of being in the world. If this means that what is enjoyable or at least tolerable for the majority of church goers is actually Very Uncomfortable for an Aspie, this is good and useful information to have. After all, if one part suffers, every part suffers. The Aspies in a church are indispensable. And things that are indispensable don't need to be apologized for or excused. Honoring their way of being is healthy for everyone. Right?
Luckily, loud music, sermons designed to tug at the emotions, complicated surroundings, glad-handing, back-slapping, elbow rubbing, chatting and even hugging are neither fellowship nor community. Fellowship and community may take place while all of this is going on. Then again, it may not. For anyone. Aspie or not. It is possible for a group of people to go to church, sing, recite prayers, shake hands, chit-chat, listen to a sermon, have good feelings about it all and experience not a whit of fellowship or community.
On the other hand, it is possible to enjoy an activity, like quietly organizing and cleaning up at the local food bank, and to have fellowship doing it. Maintaining the church library on off hours when there's no one else in the church, because you love books and in your mind there's no greater gift to give to the people you love, can be community.
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