When someone of a conservative leaning disagrees with leftist ideals they are not being hateful or bigoted but merely presenting their view or even the facts of the matter.
It's not just a left vs right thing.
Let's say the left like unions and let's say the right don't like unions, that doesn't mean that the right are being hateful or bigoted.
The reason why many on the right are accused of hate and bigotry is because they appear to be bigotted.
e.g. fighting against gay marriage, fighting against gay school teachers, fighting against gays adopting children, kicking trans out of the military, voting to ban Muslims (cheering on a leader when he promises to ban Muslims), supporting a leader when he wants to build a wall to keep out Mexicans, suggesting that they are drug dealers and rapists. Supporting a leader when he tells USA citizen Congress women to go back to where they came from.
It's not about conflicting with leftist ideals, its about doing and supporting bigotry.
Primarily the difference is the far left will determine truth through ideals like social justice and equity based on self-identity and perspectives and this leads to identity politics and PC.
The left recognise that society is made up of people from all sorts of backgrounds and cultures and beliefs and non beliefs, and they support that, and don't choose to pick on minority groups.
Take for example gender and transgender identity. They believe that there is no innate male and female. This is based on how an individual identifies and this is regarded as the only true measure. Whereas conservatives will state that sex also needs to be included. These are two opposing views.
Not really, no.
The left recognise that there are people with gender dysphoria and are open minded and compassionate enough to try to help these people out, to accommodate them.
The right have this "idealistic" view and remain stubborn and attack these people, saying that they have mental issues and should not be accomodated, but instead should look for a cure.
Because the left place a lot of emphasis on self-identity and self-referencing as the measure of reality and truth they have to silence any opposing views or facts that will contradict that position.
The left are trying to stamp out bigotry. People that attack minorities don't lead to social harmony.
But to the conservative this is just a fact of life and nature. It’s not personal but something that is obvious and should not be denied. This comes down to a clash of views in how people see reality.
I don't see why conservatives cannot be kind to others, why they feel the need to stand in judgement and to ridicule others and treat them poorly. Surely this isn't a core conservative value.
That is why the left is about denying and minimizing any differences between people.
The left are about inclusiveness, supporting of diversity and against bigotry.
I don't know why the (USA brand of the) right can't be for these things as well.