My thoughts as a fairly conservative Christian male:
I place more blame on men than I do on women.
For centuries, men have objectified women. For centuries, we have wronged women inuncountalbe ways. As you read through covenant history, husbands continually fail their wives. Whether it be Abraham looking to a servant girl, or Adam failing to stand up for his wife to the serpent. Whether it be heirams or adultery or simply failing to protect the women around them, men have continually failed miserably.
As men, we are called to protect and watch out for women. This is embodied in the caretaking role in marriage. It is out of love of Christ and love of our sisters that we should do this.
First of all, we fail them through premarital sex. Then we fail them through not supporting them. And then, we sit by allow them to have an abortion, or sometimes force them to. (Granted some fight for the child) Often times, men drive women to the clinics. They sit by and allow that child of God whom they have supposedly professed their love to with their body to be poked, proded, and violated in unmentionable ways, not to mention that the child, which God entrusted to them, to be killed. That is a serious failure as a man.
Now I am not discounting a woman's role. Some "dress to kill" to attract men, compete with other women, etc. Others sell themselves to men, whether through prostitution, inappropriate contentography, they way they dress, the way they act, what they say, where they work (in a strip club, etc) and in so many other ways. It is a tragedy that such beauty is being sold to the lusts of men. A quote that I find applicable is that "we will continue to sell ourselves until we realize we are priceless!" And many do so willingly.
I think in some ways we are all blameless. For unless you have devoted yourself to the pro-life movement, and you sit idly by as it happens, then your inaction can even be considered partially to blame. It falls under the sins of omission.
Sex ed belongs in the CHURCH! SEX IS INHERANTLY RELIGIOUS! GOD CREATED SEX! So why would we want it taught by secular, public figures? Can they truly teach the children of this world what sex is about, so they truly value it, or will they hand out condoms and instruct them on how to avoid getting a disease? Do you really think that they can truly discuss the value of chastity and celibacy until marriage? Do you really think that they will uphold the Christian view of marriage- UNTIL DEATH DO US PART, as well as a total, faithful, free, and fruitful gift of the self? If sex is inherantly religious, and inherantly Christian, then why would we want to trust the secular world in teaching it? Shouldnt we rather push for it to be taught from the pulpit? Not just kids need to hear it. But EVERYONE! So many people are misguided and wandering, seeking this very truth. And yet many preachers and pastors dont want to because it is to controversial. Well guess what, that which is controversial needs to be taught the most.
We are called to be a sign of contradiction. We are called to hold high standards, and set the bar high, and not comprimise that which we know is right. As such, I am proud to be considered a conservative Christian male. And I pray that I can do justice to what the true and godly meaning is. And I pray for His strength, and His will, and His love, that I may be a conduit of them for others.