- Sep 9, 2018
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- Lutheran
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- Widowed
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Hello:
I am 52 years old.
I lost my wife to breast cancer last November. She died on Thanksgiving. We had no children and I have almost no living relatives. Except for my cat I have no-one in this world.
I have severe depression and PTSD. They bought me a discharge from the Air National Guard.
Currently I sm a member of the Lutheran Church-Missouri Synod.
However, I am really confused about where to go.
Since my wife died almost no-one at my home congregation has much to do with me. My wife was very friendly and outgoing and I am very much an introvert. I think they have trouble accepting me without her. I go on Sundays, sit alone, maybe get one or two "hellos" and I come home and often get drunk because I am so alone.
I have visited another LCMS congregation but there are not many people there my age - most are much older or much younger.
I was baptised a United Methodist and am considering visiting a UMC congregation.
However, the LCMS basically teaches that denominations outside the LCMS are "heterodox" and falling apart theologically and we are the only ones who "get it right." I often feel like to go anywhere outside the LCMS would jeopardise my salvation.
My pastor is a great guy but he can't make the people in my congregation like me. I can also tell he is not wild about me going outside the LCMS.
My conundrum is this:
Staying where I am to ensure I receive "correct doctrine" and die on the vine of loneliness, or maybe go somewhere else where the people are friendlier and more welcoming and risk the ecclesiastical wrath of the LCMS and betraying my pastor.
Help...please help!
I am 52 years old.
I lost my wife to breast cancer last November. She died on Thanksgiving. We had no children and I have almost no living relatives. Except for my cat I have no-one in this world.
I have severe depression and PTSD. They bought me a discharge from the Air National Guard.
Currently I sm a member of the Lutheran Church-Missouri Synod.
However, I am really confused about where to go.
Since my wife died almost no-one at my home congregation has much to do with me. My wife was very friendly and outgoing and I am very much an introvert. I think they have trouble accepting me without her. I go on Sundays, sit alone, maybe get one or two "hellos" and I come home and often get drunk because I am so alone.
I have visited another LCMS congregation but there are not many people there my age - most are much older or much younger.
I was baptised a United Methodist and am considering visiting a UMC congregation.
However, the LCMS basically teaches that denominations outside the LCMS are "heterodox" and falling apart theologically and we are the only ones who "get it right." I often feel like to go anywhere outside the LCMS would jeopardise my salvation.
My pastor is a great guy but he can't make the people in my congregation like me. I can also tell he is not wild about me going outside the LCMS.
My conundrum is this:
Staying where I am to ensure I receive "correct doctrine" and die on the vine of loneliness, or maybe go somewhere else where the people are friendlier and more welcoming and risk the ecclesiastical wrath of the LCMS and betraying my pastor.
Help...please help!