- Sep 14, 2018
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Yesterday I had dinner outside with my parents (we don't live together since last June), and at some point the discussion turned to the topic of religion and specifically of my current thought on homosexual couples.
The debate didn't heat up because of the public context and because I was kept especially calm by a sense of inner tranquility (unlike in the past I wasn't defending my own ideology but God's Word, so I couldn't feel insecure); however I feel my parents were somewhat astonished about my comments, especially on the issue of homosexual couples and of the upbringing of my children.
Let me specify I explained first that in Orthodoxy nobody judges or hates anyone, and that feeling homosexual desires is normal per se, what isn't normal is giving in to such lust. On children, I explained a parent has the obligation to instruct his children with love, raising them with the Truth the father and mother share. Being used to catholics here, they still pictured in their minds me forcing my crying kids into the Church and forcing them to pray and all. This is just to be clear I didn't do the mistake of misrepresenting the correct mentality on "soft issues".
My real questions are:
Does anyone relate to my aforementioned tranquility and peace when responding to criticism or provocations from unbelieving friends or relatives? As if your words were guided by the Holy Spirit, to a minor extent.
And what's in your experience the best attitude with people who you know won't take well your words no matter how well described they are? Avoid this type of conversation? Any advice is appreciated.
If anyone thinks a poll would be a fine implementation to the thread, let me know.
The debate didn't heat up because of the public context and because I was kept especially calm by a sense of inner tranquility (unlike in the past I wasn't defending my own ideology but God's Word, so I couldn't feel insecure); however I feel my parents were somewhat astonished about my comments, especially on the issue of homosexual couples and of the upbringing of my children.
Let me specify I explained first that in Orthodoxy nobody judges or hates anyone, and that feeling homosexual desires is normal per se, what isn't normal is giving in to such lust. On children, I explained a parent has the obligation to instruct his children with love, raising them with the Truth the father and mother share. Being used to catholics here, they still pictured in their minds me forcing my crying kids into the Church and forcing them to pray and all. This is just to be clear I didn't do the mistake of misrepresenting the correct mentality on "soft issues".
My real questions are:
Does anyone relate to my aforementioned tranquility and peace when responding to criticism or provocations from unbelieving friends or relatives? As if your words were guided by the Holy Spirit, to a minor extent.
And what's in your experience the best attitude with people who you know won't take well your words no matter how well described they are? Avoid this type of conversation? Any advice is appreciated.
If anyone thinks a poll would be a fine implementation to the thread, let me know.