You're kinda going all over the place, to try to set a stage of the conflict. But again, there's no conflict and Ill show you with this verse.
Roman 12
14 Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse them.
15 Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep.
16 Live in harmony with one another. Do not be haughty, but associate with the lowly.[
h] Never be wise in your own sight.
17 Repay no one evil for evil, but give thought to do what is honorable in the sight of all.
18 If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all.
19 Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it[i] to the wrath of God, for it is written, “Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.” 20 To the contrary, “if your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink; for by so doing you will heap burning coals on his head.” 21 Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.
Being a Christian, being redeemed is two-fold. It means that not only the Christian is surely saved, but the enemy will be surely punished. No sin goes unpunished, whether or not you see the punishment. The responsibility of the believer is thus not to dwell on this things, nor be troubled whenever it arises because God avenges His own. With that hope, I don't feel compelled to cut corners, it compels me to love them, not because I'm forced to, but because they are walking into God's wrath, and I rather show mercy and compassion and pray that God saved them from damnation like how He has saved me.
I also have the hope in God, that He takes care of His own, He's always with us and our end no matter is a good end. So again, no need to cut corners, as long as I honor God, God will watch over and take care of me. That again alleviates the pressure. Many examples in the Word, including kings who have been taken care of. The Christian walk is not cookie cutter, its not only a poor man's gospel. Its for everyone, and it solidifies a sure hope so that we are not bounded to things of this world. Whether the Christian is successful or not in this life, nothing will be in vain.
Jesus was a carpenter. He could have stayed with his paps and grow His business. Jesus during His travels had Judas as treasurer, he could have stayed longer. He could have done alot of business, He could have save himself cut corners and make profit, that would be a practical thing to do, but He laid down His life, no man took it from Him. He had a guaranteed hope when He honored His Father, and He knew that His sacrifice will not go in vain. Jesus was not less of Jesus when He was a carpenter, any more than He was more Jesus when He died on the cross. The point is that His hope were on the things above no matter what situation He was in. Same for the christian.