So it's that season again, Christmas. As an MJ, I dont condone all the pagan festivities. I was sent a viral Christmas Flash mob video (very easy to find on youtube) and I told my husband about it and he said 'yeah I saw that, it's dumb' and I asked him why and he said cuz it had to do with Christmas. I know Messiah wasnt born on Dec 25th, but all the songs shown in the video had to do with Jesus and I really give them credit for not being afraid to try to glorify God in a mall rather than the usual ho-ho-ho santa songs.
This brings me to where I've been the last weeks. We dont go to a church anywhere and we have 0 fellowship unless it's hanging out every so often with people, but we dont have spiritual fellowship and haven't for a looong time. I asked my husband when we will and he said maybe there will be an MJ congregation when we move (which that is totally up in the air anyways, we dont know anything in regards to where/when). It just seems he writes off anything that disagrees with our view and I feel really like we're becoming solitary isolationists and it honestly scares me. I find I dont even know what I believe anymore because I feel so cut off from people. I like my Christian family and would like to have more Christian friends. We are all somewhere different in our walk with God. But to be honest, I felt closer to God in my younger years than I do now. I just feel confused and frustrated and like I said - cut off.
I married my husband knowing we wouldnt be THE most popular people in the world, especially when asked about our beliefs (embracing Torah). But I never meant to be cut off from other believers in Messiah Y'shua. My growth feels stunted right now because of the lack of fellowship. I want to join a ladies bible study somewhere locally because I'm so desperate for fellowship and I know I'm going to feel even more confused and lonely when my husband deploys.
Back to Christmas, I dont wish to celebrate Christmas but it just seems that my husband and I are separating ourselves from people too much. There's nobody really close to me who I trust that I can talk to about these things. My husband goes on an annual FB antiCHristmas rant and I went along with it the first few years. Now I dont even want to speak divisive talk anymore because I'm tired of feeling and making myself isolated from people, I want to connect to people - people who love God from all walks of life and understanding of HIs Word. No one is perfect, no one has it all together.
This brings me to where I've been the last weeks. We dont go to a church anywhere and we have 0 fellowship unless it's hanging out every so often with people, but we dont have spiritual fellowship and haven't for a looong time. I asked my husband when we will and he said maybe there will be an MJ congregation when we move (which that is totally up in the air anyways, we dont know anything in regards to where/when). It just seems he writes off anything that disagrees with our view and I feel really like we're becoming solitary isolationists and it honestly scares me. I find I dont even know what I believe anymore because I feel so cut off from people. I like my Christian family and would like to have more Christian friends. We are all somewhere different in our walk with God. But to be honest, I felt closer to God in my younger years than I do now. I just feel confused and frustrated and like I said - cut off.
I married my husband knowing we wouldnt be THE most popular people in the world, especially when asked about our beliefs (embracing Torah). But I never meant to be cut off from other believers in Messiah Y'shua. My growth feels stunted right now because of the lack of fellowship. I want to join a ladies bible study somewhere locally because I'm so desperate for fellowship and I know I'm going to feel even more confused and lonely when my husband deploys.
Back to Christmas, I dont wish to celebrate Christmas but it just seems that my husband and I are separating ourselves from people too much. There's nobody really close to me who I trust that I can talk to about these things. My husband goes on an annual FB antiCHristmas rant and I went along with it the first few years. Now I dont even want to speak divisive talk anymore because I'm tired of feeling and making myself isolated from people, I want to connect to people - people who love God from all walks of life and understanding of HIs Word. No one is perfect, no one has it all together.
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