Amittai
baggage apostate
I've thought about this since you raised it. I think that up to about 70 years ago, mature Christians taught newer ones how to maintain good boundaries between personal and organisational religion. Religious authorities were more inclined to respect the integrity of members as to how they wanted to participate or not, and to respect the needs of all. Nowadays the ethos is so often, to emotionally blackmail by sentimentality, to impose a legalism and giving "party poopers" their "marching orders" - by saying for example what I've heard:
- We're all different - which means we're all the same and under legalism and not deep enough thinkers to consider your constructive input
(That was when I said don't load the Bible Study table with confectionary called the Rocky Road every single week and constantly distract everyone towards it - to show off how provident you are: I think the only rocky road should be the one under our feet) (and when I wanted to give feedback about bad amplifying)
Well everything has changed. In any case my new bunch that I dared to seek out just in time, are very different. Perhaps the old bunches are now learning rapidly too! If I let them off the hook, I'll be letting myself off the hook too and they will soar.
The downward plunge came about 50 years ago when church authorities decided casualness had to cloak a closed heart.
- We're all different - which means we're all the same and under legalism and not deep enough thinkers to consider your constructive input
(That was when I said don't load the Bible Study table with confectionary called the Rocky Road every single week and constantly distract everyone towards it - to show off how provident you are: I think the only rocky road should be the one under our feet) (and when I wanted to give feedback about bad amplifying)
Well everything has changed. In any case my new bunch that I dared to seek out just in time, are very different. Perhaps the old bunches are now learning rapidly too! If I let them off the hook, I'll be letting myself off the hook too and they will soar.
The downward plunge came about 50 years ago when church authorities decided casualness had to cloak a closed heart.
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