Hello all. I've been a Christian for 25 years (I was baptised while in university).
In the last 4 years or so I have been through business and financial difficulties. A business which I had faith that God wanted me to start. When I prayed, doors opened, thus my believe that it was from God. Now I am unsure whether it was due to my persistence or God at all.
I have been the victim of financial embezzlement by my staff, which God did not help in resolving. The business is profitable but has not been able to pay its bank loans since day 1.
I have been trying to be strong and steadfast, and although I admit I have not been praying and reading the bible as often as I should, my strength is ebbing and I have been having doubts, not as to the existence of God but as to his nature. If this business indeed was from God, then he has led me into a trap.
It has reached the point that when I pray with my kids, I feel like a hypocrite and I fear my children relying on a God that seems to be unreliable and whimsical in his ways.
I am starting to think that God enjoys and even requires our suffering. Jesus did say, take up your cross and follow me. If the church would disseminate such a message at least there isn't a dichotomy between what many Christians are going through and the concept of God that the church tries to market to increase its membership count.
In the last 4 years or so I have been through business and financial difficulties. A business which I had faith that God wanted me to start. When I prayed, doors opened, thus my believe that it was from God. Now I am unsure whether it was due to my persistence or God at all.
I have been the victim of financial embezzlement by my staff, which God did not help in resolving. The business is profitable but has not been able to pay its bank loans since day 1.
I have been trying to be strong and steadfast, and although I admit I have not been praying and reading the bible as often as I should, my strength is ebbing and I have been having doubts, not as to the existence of God but as to his nature. If this business indeed was from God, then he has led me into a trap.
It has reached the point that when I pray with my kids, I feel like a hypocrite and I fear my children relying on a God that seems to be unreliable and whimsical in his ways.
I am starting to think that God enjoys and even requires our suffering. Jesus did say, take up your cross and follow me. If the church would disseminate such a message at least there isn't a dichotomy between what many Christians are going through and the concept of God that the church tries to market to increase its membership count.
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