I recently signed up for bumble on a whim and didn’t have any expectations. However within the first few days of only finding guys who ticked the “christian” box but talked about worldly things, finally a guy liked my profile who elaborated about his faith in his bio. I decided to match with him and sent him a message. We hit it off really well, talking about faith, what we are looking for, our goals (in life and marriage). It’s been a couple weeks since we started talking and he just decided to delete is profile and gave me his phone number to text him, after we agreed how hard it is to find anyone actually serious about their faith, especially on a secular dating app. Anyway, he’s seemed really interested in me, despite maybe being a little socially awkward and lacking conversational skills. I’m a little shy too so I’ve been understanding and putting a little more effort into getting to know each other.
The problem is he lives almost 3 hours away from me. We haven’t talked about speaking to each other on the phone or FaceTiming sometime, let alone meeting in person. I also currently don’t have a car so I can’t exactly initiate our meeting in person.
With all that in mind, I’m unsure of how to move forward. Should I suggest we talk on the phone since distance is an issue? Are their certain subjects we should talk about before we meet anyways (besides what we already have discussed)? Should I straight up ask him what is intentions of continuing to talk to me are (or is it too soon to ask? We’ve talked about 2 weeks now)?
I’m really interested in this guy, he seems like a wonderful man of God, I just don’t know where to go from here.
The problem is he lives almost 3 hours away from me. We haven’t talked about speaking to each other on the phone or FaceTiming sometime, let alone meeting in person. I also currently don’t have a car so I can’t exactly initiate our meeting in person.
With all that in mind, I’m unsure of how to move forward. Should I suggest we talk on the phone since distance is an issue? Are their certain subjects we should talk about before we meet anyways (besides what we already have discussed)? Should I straight up ask him what is intentions of continuing to talk to me are (or is it too soon to ask? We’ve talked about 2 weeks now)?
I’m really interested in this guy, he seems like a wonderful man of God, I just don’t know where to go from here.