Hi,
I need some advice.
The lady next door to me has a cat that in my yard a lot. The cat is limping and looks like his leg is injured and he is possibly hurting. I have been here for months and the issue still persists.
I have thought about approaching her to let her know there is a vet hospital on my way to work and I have no problem taking the cat in. However, I have refrained as that may be weird to approach a neighbor I don't know like that.
The ex-boyfriend of the neighbor who has the cat decided to put the cat in a cat carrier to take it to the vet. The husband of a couple that lives on the other side of me decided to go with (they feel bad for the cat too).
When they came back, the lady called the police about them taking her cat. I wanted to talk to the police afterward to let them know what has been going on. The police left and came back later to talk to me. In between that time, the lady started talking to me. I think I started telling her that I was concerned about the cat because he looks injured and like he needs to go to the vet. During our conversation that escallated I got abrasive with her, and told her something like that if I were to call animal control she could get slapped with a 5,000 fine for leaving her animal out in that situation. I said to her a couple of times "I just want you to know."
When I spoke to the police officer I believe I told him though it may not have been right for them to take the neighbor's cat (to the vet) without asking, I understand why they did it. After I spoke with the police officer he took my info to give to animal control. They called me and I told them the situation. I told them that I didn't want the lady to get a fine or be imprisoned, and I don't want him to be put down. I just want him to go to the vet.
I think God is not pleased with the abrasive way I handled my neighbor, and that I may have ruined any possible chance to witness to them. Do you have any advice on how to remedy or salvage any possible relationship?
Now the woman is probably going to think I called animal control on purpose when the police officer said he was handing my info to them, (which will probably make her perception of me worse).
I also don't want them to put down the cat. I probably shouldn't have gotten in the middle of it.
Help please?
I need some advice.
The lady next door to me has a cat that in my yard a lot. The cat is limping and looks like his leg is injured and he is possibly hurting. I have been here for months and the issue still persists.
I have thought about approaching her to let her know there is a vet hospital on my way to work and I have no problem taking the cat in. However, I have refrained as that may be weird to approach a neighbor I don't know like that.
The ex-boyfriend of the neighbor who has the cat decided to put the cat in a cat carrier to take it to the vet. The husband of a couple that lives on the other side of me decided to go with (they feel bad for the cat too).
When they came back, the lady called the police about them taking her cat. I wanted to talk to the police afterward to let them know what has been going on. The police left and came back later to talk to me. In between that time, the lady started talking to me. I think I started telling her that I was concerned about the cat because he looks injured and like he needs to go to the vet. During our conversation that escallated I got abrasive with her, and told her something like that if I were to call animal control she could get slapped with a 5,000 fine for leaving her animal out in that situation. I said to her a couple of times "I just want you to know."
When I spoke to the police officer I believe I told him though it may not have been right for them to take the neighbor's cat (to the vet) without asking, I understand why they did it. After I spoke with the police officer he took my info to give to animal control. They called me and I told them the situation. I told them that I didn't want the lady to get a fine or be imprisoned, and I don't want him to be put down. I just want him to go to the vet.
I think God is not pleased with the abrasive way I handled my neighbor, and that I may have ruined any possible chance to witness to them. Do you have any advice on how to remedy or salvage any possible relationship?
Now the woman is probably going to think I called animal control on purpose when the police officer said he was handing my info to them, (which will probably make her perception of me worse).
I also don't want them to put down the cat. I probably shouldn't have gotten in the middle of it.
Help please?