Greetings everyone. I hope you have all had a blessed Sunday. I am posting as a former Catholic who is feeling like returning to the church but has many hesitations.
If you would be so kind as to read and share your opinion please do. Here is a bit of background:
- I am 26 years old, happily married to a husband who was born into the Anglican faith but who was not raise in any kind of Christian way -- despite this he has always supported my faith and will accompany me to church, and I do believe he is on the right track to knowing and loving God
- I have a beautiful baby girl who is almost two who was baptised this past April in the Presbyterian church we have been attending for two years now
- my husband and I were married by a non denominational Christian minister at a country club
- I was raised catholic and was baptised, had the first communion, confession and cofirmation.
- in high school I made friends with girls who were Mennonite Brethren and attended some of their services. It was my first time in an evangelical church and while I felt the lack of liturgy sorely, it was a passion for God I had not seen before
- I shopped around for a church for awhile, trying Anglican, Lutheran and united before attending the Presbyterian church and bringing my family
- the Presbyterian church has been so loving and welcoming to us and I really love it, but lately I have been remembering the Catholic Church
- I picked up the book Why Catholics are right from the library after thinking of reading it for months now
I guess I feel like I still kind of belong to the Catholic Church -- for example I have some friends that are fundamentalist christians and even though I no longer attend mass I still feel offended when someone criticizes the Catholic Church, as I would feel offended if someone talked bad about my sister even if I was in a fight with her at the time
The thing is its not just my soul here it's that of my husband and baby, I want to follow the true path of Christ. A lot of what I'm reading in the library book goes a long way to explaining and making sense of what I didn't understand about th Catholic Church, but one doubt that keeps nagging me is the many Protestants who say the pope is of the devil and the bible where it says you will know them by their works, since the church has had such bad things in t lately
I miss the church, the liturgy and tradition but how can I be sure it is true way of Christ?
Mostly I worry of my baby -- will she be ok with a Protestant baptism or will she go to a bad place if something God forbid happened to her
What other books do you reccomebd I read
Most Catholics I know like my sister do not follow the church I e live in sim take birth control no confession but they insist the church is right so why they not follow it?
I don't want to make mistake of coming back if it is wrong but I do not mean to offend anyone here please advice. Are there more books for me?
Dear Sevenwatersdaughter: I've read with interest your post, and ALL of the responses. I am curious regarding one thing. You've stated that you have lately been thinking of going back to the Catholic Faith since that is the faith of your childhood and there seems to be a part of you that misses it.
You also seem to be concerned regarding the Baptism of your daughter.
I respect the Presbyterian faith and don't wish to argue beliefs here since this site is for Presbyterians and I am only a guest here. My question then is based on my confusion. What would you expect the response to be on this particular site? You will only here one side of the two things you seem torn between? If you wish to hear from both Presbyterians and Catholics, plus other faiths, I'd suggest that you take this question to the Theological forums in order to give both faiths a chance to weigh in.
I can tell you as a Catholic woman that has graduated from a Catholic Seminary recently and am very interested in finding out the EXACT truth regarding my faith and what it professes, that the Catholic Church honors all baptisms that are done with the form from the Bible. It is simply to baptize with "living water" (meaning the water needs to move. Pouring or sprinkling on the forehead is sufficient) and to baptize in the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit (Holy Ghost).
I have read the Presbyterian's statements on what the Catholic Church believes and I can tell you that they are misinformed or confused. For what they say we believe, we do not. (EWTN is not the authority for the Catholic Church). Many Catholics were poorly Catechized during the late 60's thru the 80's, and even the priests during that time were poorly trained in the U.S. This has since been reigned in significantly.
If your Presbyterian's will permit me to make a suggestion. I would suggest that you take this issue directly to God! Anytime you are confused on anything regarding your life, you should go to prayer. The Lord knows that you desire to do God's will and if you have a sincere heart in this matter, He will direct your path through the Holy Spirit. Recall to "Seek and you will find", Ask and it will be given you." "Knock and it Shall be opened unto you." (forgive me if the order is mixed up on this quote, I didn't stop to look it up because it's very very late and the sun is almost up.)
As far as books to read. If you wish to know what the Catholic faith truly believes you could read the Catechism of the Catholic Faith. There are many copies some easier to read then others. This is the book that contains the beliefs of the Catholic Church. I would also suggest that you take some time to read, The Faith of the Early Fathers by Jurgens (editor), it has quotes by the early Christians from around 80 AD through the 300's AD. This will let you know exactly how the first Christians worshiped.
I would only like to clarify one misconception that seems very commonly misunderstood regarding the Catholic Church. When we say that we believe in following the Sacred Scriptures and Sacred Tradition equally; the Tradition that we follow isn't traditions of men (with a small "t") it is the Traditions (with a capital "T") that was spoken of in the Bible. For example, when Paul said in 2 Thessalonians 2:15, "So then brethren, stand firm and hold to the traditions which you were taught by us, either by word of mouth or by letter." The Traditions that we follow along with the Sacred Scriptures are the things that the apostles taught and did, up until the death of the last apostle John (c. 90 AD). After his death then Sacred Tradition stopped and no more could be added to it. Since everything that Jesus taught could not be included in "all the books..." and much of what the apostles were preaching had not yet been written down and gathered into the Bible, we needed to also follow what they were doing by word or deed. That's all that means. Certainly many Catholics of the 1.2 Billion disobey the teachings of the faith (including some priests & even some Bishops), but "The abuse of a good, doesn't diminish the good of a good." There will always be sinners in various faiths (even one of Jesus' 12 apostles betrayed him.) But that doesn't make the belief wrong.
My hope is that one day all of God's Children will gather under one faith, so that Christ's pray that we "all be one, as "he" and the father are one." can be realized. Let us love one another as brothers and sisters in Christ. Let us ALL search for Truth, for Jesus is the Truth. I would love to read what the Presbyterian faith believes in order to understand my brethren better. I hope that they would honor my faith by doing the same.
To GOD BE THE GLORY, NOW AND FOREVER! Amen. Pray for Peace.