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I am not saying that "a bishop" as presented by Paul in 1 Timothy 3:1-10 is who we see today in a number of groups. But it does look as though there was hierarchy . . . Paul over Timothy over those appointed to "take care of the church of God" > in 1 Timothy 3:1-10.
And I understand that a 1 Timothy 3:1-10 approved "bishop" takes "care of the church of God". So, to me it seems a "bishop" means a pastor, since he takes care of God's people. And he is ordained to be a pastor . . . after he has proven himself in his own family so we know he knows how to care for people in our Father's family caring and sharing way. And it says he is "blameless" . . . meaning how he becomes after years of maturing with his wife in God's love, with her his helpmate helping him get this correction (Hebrews 12:4-11) and maturation (1 John 4:17). He has become an example Christian so God's children can feed on his example > 1 Peter 5:3.
So, this kind of a pastor is not a gift, but a man who has matured and learned how to love and care for God's people, learning in his own home first, being tested and proven there . . . before he may even be considered.
But there is the good and perfect gift (James 1:17) of pastor, which is a spiritual gift which makes a person able to minister for us to be pastored by Jesus in us guiding each of us personally. This gift can be given to a newborn Christian so the person has ability to minister to others while he or she also needs more and more correction and maturation. The gifted person, at first, might not be a great example, but has the gift so he or she can be some good for the church while maturing in grace which has all of God's ability and makes each of us grow to become more and more well-rounded in God's creativity of love.
When the church was new, there were no rather fully mature Christians . . . I would say; so - - at that time, especially, we needed gifts which were already good and perfect to help us along. We had not very mature example leaders. So, Jesus gave some to be pastors by gift, but Paul is talking about one who is qualified to be considered a pastor because of maturity and already proven ability in his home.
Now I see how ones in hierarchies can be high-up and distant . . . not like how Paul and Silvanus and Timothy cared for the Thessalonians "just as a nursing mother cherishes her own children", as we have in 1 Thessalonians 2:7. Paul, for one, was as high as you can get, for authority, I would say; yet, he was this personal with God's children. But now it seems there are hierarchies in which authority is used for control from an impersonal distance, and there is power of politics versus prayer accomplishing things.
So, I see it is scriptural to have hierarchy, but not as we see in a number of cases, today. The hierarchy which I have seen can be administrative and not necessarily making leaders by example available in the everyday lives of Christians. In order to have a leader by example > 1 Peter 5:3 < I think you need to personally know the person so you can feed on that one's example
And to me 1 Thessalonians 2:7 means that Paul and Silvanus and Timothy were this personal with the people of Jesus' church