I haven't been on this forum in a couple of years. So much has demanded my attention in my family.
But within the short time that I have till I get to work, I'll give a brief summary. I need to know if there are any testimonies.
Since I've posted years ago, I've been in a really hard marriage with my husband of 21 years. He and I were courting as Christians together and married equally yoked (or so I thought) in 1995.
This past Christmas, I learned he had been having a 2 year affair from his 25 year old mistress who called to tell me she was his girlfriend. They had just broken up, according to her. She was angry and thought I should know, because according to her, she had just found out he wasn't actually divorce as she claimed. So, she broke up with him. Of course, his story is that she was angry he had broken it off and wanted to follow through months of ongoing threats to sabotage his family of wife/4 kids.
Since the discovery day, he's been begging to work things out - at times with tears (that make me roll my eyes at the thought). He's been going to church and Bible Studies again, getting pastoral counseling (many times we do that together, but he has been individually), and has been working minimum wage to try and build up our torn down finances (broken business that was once successful and our financially broken family).
Forgiving him is a daily issue. I sometimes forgive and sometimes struggle. My heart is to forgive and I'm constantly repenting as this his brought about temptations that I have yielded to - cursing with words I hadn't said since 1989, screaming, ransacking his Mercedes in our driveway. That car was his image. It was his idol. I'm so glad that, even though he got it fixed, it got repoed just like his company flatbed did months after landlord evicted his business from its warehouse.
He's reaping what he's sown and the kids and I feel the impact in our finances.
Does anyone know of any testimonies about an adulterer actually changing?
But within the short time that I have till I get to work, I'll give a brief summary. I need to know if there are any testimonies.
Since I've posted years ago, I've been in a really hard marriage with my husband of 21 years. He and I were courting as Christians together and married equally yoked (or so I thought) in 1995.
This past Christmas, I learned he had been having a 2 year affair from his 25 year old mistress who called to tell me she was his girlfriend. They had just broken up, according to her. She was angry and thought I should know, because according to her, she had just found out he wasn't actually divorce as she claimed. So, she broke up with him. Of course, his story is that she was angry he had broken it off and wanted to follow through months of ongoing threats to sabotage his family of wife/4 kids.
Since the discovery day, he's been begging to work things out - at times with tears (that make me roll my eyes at the thought). He's been going to church and Bible Studies again, getting pastoral counseling (many times we do that together, but he has been individually), and has been working minimum wage to try and build up our torn down finances (broken business that was once successful and our financially broken family).
Forgiving him is a daily issue. I sometimes forgive and sometimes struggle. My heart is to forgive and I'm constantly repenting as this his brought about temptations that I have yielded to - cursing with words I hadn't said since 1989, screaming, ransacking his Mercedes in our driveway. That car was his image. It was his idol. I'm so glad that, even though he got it fixed, it got repoed just like his company flatbed did months after landlord evicted his business from its warehouse.
He's reaping what he's sown and the kids and I feel the impact in our finances.
Does anyone know of any testimonies about an adulterer actually changing?