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Perhaps John 3:16 sums it up pretty well. "For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life."

THAT is what God purposed to do, and He did accomplish this. He gave His only begotten Son who became the gateway to salvation for any who would choose to accept that path. In other words, His purpose was to provide the option of salvation. But that doesn't violate OUR will because He still allows us to make the decision as to whether or not to enter.
 
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I hope the above post helps the Calvinist understand what we do not believe about their theories of the unBiblical TWO wills of God.
Good job of cutting and pasting I suppose.

But even if that article is correct and Calvinism is incorrect or whatever happens to be true about anything doctrinally - the fact remains that what you portrayed to me that you desired from me in post #2215 in so far as desiring open dialog was, in the eyes of God as well as mine, nothing less than lying to me.

I'd put all of the discussion of doctrine on hold until you learn not to lie to a brother in Christ.

Again - shame on you.
 
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I was not lying to you, but I also made it clear several pages back that I wanted to hear from a Calvinist.
They start these threads and then do not live up to answering hard questions. Not focsused on you, but rather why they do not speak for themselves instead of hiding behind there one liners and one sentences.

If you still feel the above, then I am sorry you feel that way and if I mislead you, it was not intentional. I do not know why they start threads, the only reason I can see is to get their doctrine out there in posts.

So instead of them saying what they believe, I wanted to say what I believe and let them refute it, if they can. But I know they do not care too. It's all about writing about how 'elect' they are and 'chosen' pride in their status in the Lord.

All kinds of pride.

piritual pride is an insidious enemy that we all continually must guard against and fight. It was one of the main sins of the Pharisees. They thought that they were a notch above their fellow Jews (John 9:28-34) and far above the despised Gentile dogs. To confront such pride, Jesus told the parable of the Pharisee and the publican who went up to the temple to pray (Luke 18:9-14). The Pharisee thanked God that he wasn’t like the publican. But how many times have you read that story and thought, “Thank God that I’m not like that Pharisee!”

The apostle Paul apparently knew from some of his contacts in Rome that there was a problem with creeping spiritual pride on the part of the Gentile Christians against their fellow Jewish believers (he deals with this more in chapters 14 & 15) and also against unbelieving Jews. Left unchecked, this attitude would lead to division in the church, to anti-Semitism that would choke out witness to the Jews, and to the spiritual ruin of those who continued down that path.

In our text, Paul counters this problem with an illustration of an olive tree and its branches. He shows the Gentiles that they are not the root, but rather are branches from a wild olive tree that have been grafted into the cultivated tree, supported by the root. Three times (11:18, 20, 25) Paul directly warns Gentile believers against spiritual pride. They were no better than the Jews, but were grafted into the tree by God’s grace alone. And if the Gentiles do not curb their pride, they could be broken off as the unbelieving Jews were. He also encourages evangelism toward unbelieving Jews by showing that in God’s sovereign plan, the branches that were broken off because of their unbelief will be grafted back in when they believe (11:23). In fact, God is moving salvation history toward that end (11:25-26). Applied to us, Paul’s message is:

Guard against spiritual pride by remembering that salvation is by grace alone and by maintaining faith and fear before the God of kindness and severity.
 
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If you still feel the above, then I am sorry you feel that way and if I mislead you, it was not intentional. ............I was not lying to you, but I also made it clear several pages back that I wanted to hear from a Calvinist.
Ok - so in your view you were not lying to me. That, hopefully, truly being the case - I'll try this one more time.

I'm sure that you would like to hear from a full on Calvinist. The only trouble is that you burned most of those bridges long ago as I have noticed while reading along here.

As with me - you feigned wanting to understand something and then when it was explained to you, rather than dialog about it, you just launched into one of your anti-Calvinistic rants.

That's the way it's been since you first entered this conversation a long time ago as I look back on it.
They start these threads and then do not live up to answering hard questions.
Actually - I have heard many of them at least try to dialog with you. But it always ends up the same way.

If you would just tone it down a little and quit with the rants you may get somewhere (If you ever get another chance with them).

If your attitude really isn't as I took it to be - perhaps you could practice thoughtful dialog with me and be ready if the chance comes along again with someone more full blown 5-pointish.

What about the things I said in post #2216?

In all likelihood my way of expressing these truths is a bit more mild than a full blown Calvinist would do. But that's probably a good thing - if you really want understanding without a bunch of heat being generated.

Whether I am a full on 5-pointer or not -- it is still true that the points I addressed there, in reply to your post to me, are absolutely essential to an understanding of the most basic difference between the Calvinist and non-Calvinist world views.

Would you care to dialog about what I said point by point?

If not then fine.
 
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Perhaps you are not taking into account the way you're asking, the conclusions you draw prematurely, and that simple fact that in a forum such as this, there are many self-important people who will generate enough noise to sidetrack discussions that they have decided they cannot abide people having. IF you really want to know, a one-on-one conversation will be much more productive and enlightening.

Getting your info from Google is about the worst way to get what you say you want.
 
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You should see @ToBeLoved at work in the LDS threads. You definitely seem to have nailed what I've thought in regards to his/her contributions in this thread.
 
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You should see @ToBeLoved at work in the LDS threads. You definitely seem to have nailed what I've thought in regards to his/her contributions in this thread.
Interestingly I actually received a personal request from her a while back to come over to that L.D.S. thread to help her out when she was getting nowhere with her own methods . And - that after the two of us had locked horns here and elsewhere a few times before.

I did so and I participated for some time - until I finally realized that I was the only one from either side who approached the subject matter from a rational position.

If a person is going to discuss doctrine with someone with whom they have profound differences - it only makes sense to do so in a rather subdued manner (of course dropping a few extremely difficult nuggets on a few well chosen occasions). Otherwise - the discussion goes nowhere. Why bother pretending that dialog is what you are intending when all you want is confrontation?

That's what I learned while discussing Mormonism and J.W. beliefs with my outlaw relatives over the years.

If you just want a slug fest with someone with no chance of a conversion of the other party, then why not just punch them in the nose to start with? Why even pretend that you want to understand them (or even care about them)?

The absolute truth of a matter (Biblical doctrine in particular) is arrived at for two divergent parties only by both parties being willing to give an inch to gain an inch (and hopefully, from each particular standpoint, to gain two inches along the way).
 
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Yes there is God's will that all repent and believe the gospel, God commands men everywhere to repent and believe as it says in Acts 17.
Their refusal to believe regardless even as a sin done in ignorance, is still a sin. And not believing is still a sin even if they have never heard.
Sins done ignorantly still required a sacrifice in the OT and were forgivable.
For wilful sins there was no sacrifice, they were to be cut off forever from the congregation of the Lord.

Then there is what God by His decretive will brings to pass, the salvation of His elect that He has decided to be merciful towards.
This way is fair to all people who hear the gospel message. But God does not have to be fair, God shows mercy and compassion only to whomever He chooses, and His choice to leave others as they are. Entire nations of people have gone on to destruction and still are today without hearing the Truth in Christ. But we do have God's promise the gospel will be preached to all nations before the end.
God's only promise is that some from every nation, tribe, kindred, tongue will be saved.
 
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Although I agree with much of what you say - I doubt that a full throttled 5-point Calvinist presentation will do anything to reach someone like "tobeloved".

It seems to me that a bite at a time would be a better approach to discussing the differences between Calvinist and non-Calvinist doctrine with her or someone like her.
 
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I have found it is impossible to teach anyone to know the Lord and know the truth. We are simply His witnesses to truth and God is the one giving the revelation that changes people's minds. God withholds from some, certain parts of the truth. The promise is we shall know the truth, but that promise seems for the many won't be realized until the 'perfect comes'. Recall it is the Holy Spirit Jesus says that guides us into all truth.
 
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John 16:13New King James Version (NKJV)
13 However, when He, the Spirit of truth, has come, He will guide you into all truth; for He will not speak on His own authority, but whatever He hears He will speak; and He will tell you things to come.

However, the Holy Spirit is not an open book that you can read, He is the one who reports to you what He hears from God to tell to you.

Guide into truth, means lead to truth, so there is an ongoing revelatory process.
Since we are still imperfect, none of us have the whole truth yet. We just know in part.
1 Cor 13
9 For we know in part and we prophesy in part. 10 But when that which is perfect has come, then that which is in part will be done away.

11 When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child; but when I became a man, I put away childish things. 12 For now we see in a mirror, dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part, but then I shall know just as I also am known.
 
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I certainly agree with you in that. God is the one who gives the increase. It is not our debating skills.

I also believe that it is sometimes wise to moderate our arguments a bite at a time - a little along the lines of what Paul did at Mars Hill in Athens and Peter did before the Sanhedrin - or even what Stephen did in Jerusalem at his stoning.

But in the end we can only try to do our best according to our own personalities.

I hope that she'll engage you again and that you will be productive in your approach.
 
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HaHa, well, it is not really our job to change anyone's minds. Like I said, people seem to be hardened as stone into their philosophies, I take that as being ordained of God.
 
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The Bible plainly teaches that no one seeks God, and they never will in their total depravity, it is against thier nature. Only the ones predestined and called will come [Romans 8:30]. The question is now easy for me to answer, only the Elect need to hear the gospel and evey single one will, this make Christ's atonement 100% effecient.
 
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So then satan and 1/3 of the angels rebellion is God's will? As well as Adam coming to sin, God's will?

Then we would be adding 'sin' to the perfect, just will of God. So God condones sin now?
So allowing is now condoning? (matching tone)
"Adding sin to the perfect just will" sounds hyperbolic compared to what the actual scriptures say He was doing:

[22] What if God, willing to shew his wrath, and to make his power known, endured with much longsuffering the vessels of wrath fitted to destruction:
[23] And that he might make known the riches of his glory on the vessels of mercy, which he had afore prepared unto glory,

...if you want to interpret that as He willed sin to happen rather than He allowed it, that's your business, not mine..
 
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It is ridiculous to think God loved the world in the sense that He loved every unrepentant sinner, even by your own Arminian standards. It makes perfect sense to interpret it in the way it was used in the first century, not the 20th century.
The world was another way of saying gentiles.
It was a controversy to claim salvation was for anyone beside what was then under good to be God's chosen people.
You should just agree to disagree if you can't except basic facts.
 
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That's how it worked on me.
I was 3& 1/2 yrs old. I will never forget the moment I first believed. I heard a Catholic priest say "God made everything because He loves you." And it hit me like a ton of feathers.
Everything in my life suddenly made perfect sense. It was my first epiphany. I was pretty excited, but I had to contain myself because I was "in church". lol
 
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I'll leave now after being falsely accused and spit on. Starting a thread not to Explain Calvinism that doesn't answer questions, but is just for 'good ol' boys' club fodder with believers who believe like you do.

You never wanted to 'discuss' it, only push your own beliefs. I asked too hard of questions. I know.
 
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