Are you in favor of harsher punishments and zero tolerance?
or,
Do you favor building the self-esteem and self defense of the bullied?
or,
Do you favor building the self-esteem and self defense of the bullied?
Are you in favor of harsher punishments and zero tolerance?
or,
Do you favor building the self-esteem and self defense of the bullied?
I agree that it doesn't seem to be an either or proposition. I also don't agree with zero tolerance policy. Namely because of what we read of such policies being in place with regard to guns in school.why not both?
doesn't seem like an either or question to me.
But I'd say the #1 thing to do is enrich the consciousness of the masses in schools. Change their thinking about the social acceptance of bullying and then add the punishment stuff on top of it.
I recently read an article that stated that bullies do not bully due to low self esteem but instead due to contempt and a feeling of superiority over their victim.
Bullies do not need self esteem help but rather a lesson in humility and compassion.
Building resilience matters. Dealing with the bullies matters, though harsher punishment and zero tolerance is not an effective policy for doing that.sorednax said:Are you in favor of harsher punishments and zero tolerance? or, Do you favor building the self-esteem and self defense of the bullied?
I recently read an article that stated that bullies do not bully due to low self esteem but instead due to contempt and a feeling of superiority over their victim.
Bullies do not need self esteem help but rather a lesson in humility and compassion.
Having been both a victim as well as a bully I would suggest that if the masses stand together and don't allow bully behavior there would be a lot less of it.
Well certainly we see what happens when weakness is perceived by those who bully.
Their victims commit suicide sometimes.
Somehow though it seems to fix itself when that victim beats the hairs off their bully. Then the bully realizes they're bested and perhaps won't want to tempt a repeat of history by messing with the target of their dysfunctional behavior in future.
Bullied Kid Body Slams Bully - YouTube
Of course this isn't always the case. Take for instance the punk in this video. Afterward he said he'd do it again.
Must like to limp. A lot. And often.
EXCLUSIVE: Interview with Richard Gale kid that got slammed by Casey Haynes HD QUALITY ! - YouTube