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dies-l
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I sorta understand the whole thought process of "well, the other family didn't do what we were doing" but at the same time, why would you expect them to? Just because you feel it's how your child should act doesn't mean that's how they feel their child should act. It's not really fair to expect another family to do what you're doing just because you're doing it. You can certainly request it, but I don't really think you have the right to be upset about it if they don't follow your lead.
I can say that typically when I see a parent that is trying to provide guidance to their children to learn something that is an okay thing for kids to learn, I will try to discourage my kids from sending a contrary message, even if that is not a lesson that I would necessarily teach my own children at that point in time.
However, I would also admit that getting irritated at the other parent for not doing so falls in the category of things that are my problem -- not theirs. And, as I have said, there are plenty of issues that my kids need help sorting through that other parents (at least those who do't know my kids well) couldn't possibly understand, I should be more tolerant of other parents who parent their kids differently than I parent my own.
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