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Biggest attraction?

Discussion in 'Teen's Community Area' started by IesuGristAmddiffynwr, Aug 4, 2011.

  1. IesuGristAmddiffynwr

    IesuGristAmddiffynwr I'm just a kid.

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    So hey, I was just curious to find out what's everyone's biggest attraction when it comes to dating someone, or being in a relationship with someone. Appearance, personality, whatever. What's your kind? :)

    I, personally, don't find many things more attractive than seeing someone totally on fire for God. I honestly don't. I find the passion in people's hearts beautiful, and that makes the person themselves beautiful.

    That's my view :)
     
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  2. DMMullinax

    DMMullinax I could live in hope

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    ^^ I agree. I also find refined character extremely attractive: humbleness, self-control, inner-strength, personal drive, stuff like that. And a keen ability to see past the glamour and see the joy in very small aspects of life.
     
  3. scarlettlevittxoxo

    scarlettlevittxoxo Newbie

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    I, personally, don't find many things more attractive than seeing someone totally on fire for God. I honestly don't. I find the passion in people's hearts beautiful, and that makes the person themselves beautiful.

    I couldnt agree more.
    I also think personality is a biggie.

    Looks- well they dont have to be too attractive as long as they have an awesome personality. it seems like even when people arent the best looking, if they are really nice, it really shines through and makes them a whole lot more attractive.
     
  4. stacymay

    stacymay Cloudcuckoolander

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    What matters most to me is that he shares my faith, so that we can learn from each other and grow spiritually together. I just want a guy who's faithful, kind, who wouldn't abuse me, who's easy to be myself around. I've been put down all my life and at 18, I've never been in a relationship because I still haven't found a guy who likes and respects me. If God never gives me that special someone, I can still dream - and hey, I like my solitude. I'm attracted to guys with a good sense of humor, sensitivity, and good values.
     
  5. Catherine4Christ

    Catherine4Christ Newbie

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    I agree. I love guys who are just so bold and excited to share their faith. In addition to that, I have an attraction for guys who know how to treat a girl right, as in chivalry.
     
  6. BlueTestament

    BlueTestament Newbie

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    Has anyone here read Scandinavia and the World? Well, I personally would like a guy like Norway. :D
     
  7. RipleyCountyChristian

    RipleyCountyChristian The guy Chuck Norris tries to live up to :)

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    There two posts sum up my view :)
     
  8. Chilaha

    Chilaha Newbie

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    For girls, are muscles a pretty good way to get a girls attention? Is there any small things in appearance that turn you off from some guys?
    Chilaha :cool:
     
  9. Fatally.Yours

    Fatally.Yours I may be bad, but I'm perfectly good at it.

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    Old thread, but a guy with nice arms = :p
    Some girls like the skinny look, but that tends to be 13 year olds going through their emo phrase. I like it when the guy is bigger than me.
     
  10. Chilaha

    Chilaha Newbie

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    Aight, thanks.
    Chilaha
     
  11. Rhayven

    Rhayven Newbie

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    clean, smart, good sense of humor, funny and knows how to have fun. Looks is not what I look in a guy. Most of the time.. better they look more insecure they are and that is a huge turn off for me.
     
  12. dark.lightning

    dark.lightning Newbie

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    If you get together with somebody who doesn't believe in Christ, it may be difficult to either convert him or her and to abstain from sin. Therefore, if I wanted to get together with someone, she would definitely need to be Christian. Another thing that she would have to be is kind. These are about the only two standards I would have, if I decide to get together with somebody.
     
  13. LivetoLove

    LivetoLove Follower of a Beautiful Saviour

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    I completely agree! To me, a guy is most attractive when he loves God. It doesn't have to be in an obvious "on fire" way where he's energetic all the time... but to see that Jesus is at the centre of his life and that he's strong in his faith makes him so much more appealing...

    I also love a good sense of humour... just being able to laugh and talk with someone, without feeling like it's an effort.

    Being tall with broad shoulders is a welcome plus ;)
     
  14. elizabeth451

    elizabeth451 American Patriot

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    I agree with the insecurity issues. One time there was a guy who asked his friend to ask their friend to ask me if he could hold my hand. That was about the biggest turnoff i ever got.:)

    But the way they treat people, especially adults and other girls is very important.

    Oh and it really helps if they're taller than me;)
     
  15. religious&reasonable

    religious&reasonable Slayer of Stupid Threads

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    Excluding Faith for a second, Class.

    Cursing is a turn-off for me, as is low-brow humor. I also don't like loose women.
     
  16. dreamjaney

    dreamjaney Newbie

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    A guy that's funny,attractive,humble,good self control,loves jesus and talks about Him(walking with God),cares and loves everybody(treats others well),in good shape(doesn't have to be all muscled up.),loves animals,have the same interests with me and good hygiene. lol
     
  17. snoopy500

    snoopy500 Revelation 21:6- I am Alpha and Omega

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    Interesting you say that. If you actually do look at the majority of couples you would see tat most guys are bigger than most women. I see nothing wrong with that of course
     
  18. HarborOrange

    HarborOrange I am a sieve.

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    Due to the fact I've been cheated on and treated like dirt, I'd honestly be the happiest (and find this facet of a girl's persona to be rather attractive as well.) with a girl who actually cares about me. That's all I want, just a faithful girl who I know wants to be with me. That's all. Haha.

    If I could pick and choose, though, I definitely find personality qualities far more attractive than physical qualities. What I find most attractive is a girl who doesn't mind working hard or getting dirty doing more simple tasks, like planting a garden or helping out in an agricultural setting, a girl who's down to earth and real, a girl who's an individual in the entire definition of the word, and a girl who has a slight bend towards art and music.
     
    Last edited: Dec 10, 2011
  19. mixtkid

    mixtkid Newbie

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    I like a good personality, good christian, and somebody different. I dont like girls who act the same. Its Like dating a clone. : )
     
  20. emokid1

    emokid1 Newbie

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    personality, decisive but not controlling, caring and is able to cry and show emotion when needed
     
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