Mary was the first Jesus appeared to after His Resurrection. This shows what God thinks about women. But Christ still did not make her an Apostle over the Church. This shows WHO God gives Spiritual Authority/Responsibility. Men believed the Gospel after women, but they still have the duty of spiritual leadership, and thus God gives them the necessary Authority as the tool to do it, just like He gave Adam the Authority to name the animals. A woman of God can share the Word of God with men. But when both a women and a man have the Word of God, the woman is called to yield the the Word of God in the Man. This is God's Order. This why why Jesus was silent when God spoke from Heaven at Jesus baptism. Jesus Christ never interrupts or overrules the Father. When the Father speaks, Jesus is either silent or He speaks the same words the Father is speaking. But the Son never speaks over the Father or speaks something different while the Father is speaking also. This would be spiritual confusion, exactly how Satan speaks, with a 3-forked tongue of frog-like spirits that are NOT in spiritual Unity. It's why Messages in Tongues can only be spoken by 1 or 2 at a time, and also why it says "the spirit of the prophets is subject to the prophets". It's why the Scriptures say that if someone is Prophesying and another Prophesy comes, the first is to sit down (1 Corinthians 14:30-33). Now both women and men can prophesy, so if a woman and a man are prophesying, and the 2nd person to get the prophesy starts speaking but the first won't sit be quiet, who is there to "USURP AUTHORITY"? If the 2nd prophecy comes thru a woman, the man speaking the 1st prophecy must be quiet. But there has to be some Authority OVER the Prophets that keeps order if the 1st person prophesying won't be quite. This is the role of Apostle. Apostles are greater than Prophets in spiritual authority. This is why Paul the Apostle wrote commands about order while Prophesying. Because Christ gave Him authority OVER both men and women Prophets. But Christ never makes a woman an Apostle, so Christ never gives women the Apostolic Spiritual Authority. This is the Order of Spiritual Authority in the Church (Ephesians 4:11)
1) Apostle
2) Prophet
3) Evangelist
4) Pastor
5) Teacher
God makes women everything but Apostles. And within their role, they have authority over over the Sons of Men, Other women, and Children, not over the Sons of God (men filled with God's Spirit).
A woman prophetess does not have Authority over a man of God Teacher even though her role is Greater. For example, if a Prophecy comes thru a woman of God, and there is a Man of God TEACHER there who says the Prophecy is not in accordance with the Word of God, the TEACHER can OVERRULE that woman's Prophesy and it should be ignored. This is also part of God's Order in the Church.