The Bible does say that in relationships Christians should be with other Christians. For the most part, if two Christians are genuine about serving Christ and loving God then their relationship will be 100000x stronger and deeper then a relationship between two non-christians.
I understand that God's power is unexplainable, but I do understand that God's power in our lives and in our relationships changes everything. I of course wish that everyone was a Christian. All of my friends, and all of the people that I deal with in my life. Sadly, this is not the case.
Right now I'm in a pickle though. I am quite young yes, I am 18 and although it may not be good to say, I'll be honest and say that I have been involved with quite a few guys in just the past 4 years. Way too many I must admit, which I do believe is a problem...but it's not specifically the problem that I want to address here. I am not out searching for the person that I want to spend my life with, I am young and I believe God will bring that person to me. My only problem is that almost all the guys (except one...and he was NOT a good example of a Christian) are non-Christian that I have been involved with. Not only that, but almost all the guys I have in my life, friends or more then that...are all non-Christian.
The past few months have been bombarding for me, it's been non-christian guy after non-christian guy and I KNOW that I shouldn't have gotten involved in ANY way with any of them, but I do believe that this has happend for a reason and that God will use it for his plan, and it was part of him teaching me. What I need is some insight, advice, prayer...something to help me stand strong and stop getting romantically involved with non-christians, but it's really tearing me down.
Thanks for reading!
I understand that God's power is unexplainable, but I do understand that God's power in our lives and in our relationships changes everything. I of course wish that everyone was a Christian. All of my friends, and all of the people that I deal with in my life. Sadly, this is not the case.
Right now I'm in a pickle though. I am quite young yes, I am 18 and although it may not be good to say, I'll be honest and say that I have been involved with quite a few guys in just the past 4 years. Way too many I must admit, which I do believe is a problem...but it's not specifically the problem that I want to address here. I am not out searching for the person that I want to spend my life with, I am young and I believe God will bring that person to me. My only problem is that almost all the guys (except one...and he was NOT a good example of a Christian) are non-Christian that I have been involved with. Not only that, but almost all the guys I have in my life, friends or more then that...are all non-Christian.
The past few months have been bombarding for me, it's been non-christian guy after non-christian guy and I KNOW that I shouldn't have gotten involved in ANY way with any of them, but I do believe that this has happend for a reason and that God will use it for his plan, and it was part of him teaching me. What I need is some insight, advice, prayer...something to help me stand strong and stop getting romantically involved with non-christians, but it's really tearing me down.
Thanks for reading!