- Jul 19, 2015
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Communication is a key part of marriage or any relationship. I often hear single women say they are looking for an emotionally open man. I think women like to share their feelings more than men do. I can be talkative but prefer silence most of the time. I am highly intelligent and my mind likes to think, process, contemplate. Discussing the day or talking about friends or family just doesn't occupy my mind for long. I literally do not know what married couples find to talk about especially once they no longer have children at home. Twenty minutes of talking a day is usually enough for me so I don't know what I would do if I had a spouse at home who wanted more communication than that. I find talking tiring and draining.
I love time alone and by alone I do me alone as in no one else in the house. Being left alone for a period of time is not the same as being alone. Knowing there is no one else in the house is such peaceful feeling. That feeling that I don't have to interact with anyone else unless I want to and make arrangements to.
I have been married and I never slept as well sharing a bed as sleeping alone. Something about having someone else in the bed makes me restless and I feel trapped especially if they get too close. I can cuddle for a short period of time but then I need my space to sleep.
I know its very natural to want company. Most people enjoy having someone else around to talk to and do things with. I think some of us have minds that don't want to be distracted by conversation. I suppose we have an inner thought life that takes the place of having an outward conversational life. I almost prefer exchanging emails to talking in person or on the phone.
Such a life though leads to great discoveries, great leanings, great understanding of self. If you are content with your own company and don't miss physical touch then it's a good life. Not for everyone I know. Maybe people like me are rare. I don't know. I can go days or a week or more without a single meaningful conversation with another person. Doesn't bother me a bit.
Anyone else out there like this? Does this seem strange?
I love time alone and by alone I do me alone as in no one else in the house. Being left alone for a period of time is not the same as being alone. Knowing there is no one else in the house is such peaceful feeling. That feeling that I don't have to interact with anyone else unless I want to and make arrangements to.
I have been married and I never slept as well sharing a bed as sleeping alone. Something about having someone else in the bed makes me restless and I feel trapped especially if they get too close. I can cuddle for a short period of time but then I need my space to sleep.
I know its very natural to want company. Most people enjoy having someone else around to talk to and do things with. I think some of us have minds that don't want to be distracted by conversation. I suppose we have an inner thought life that takes the place of having an outward conversational life. I almost prefer exchanging emails to talking in person or on the phone.
Such a life though leads to great discoveries, great leanings, great understanding of self. If you are content with your own company and don't miss physical touch then it's a good life. Not for everyone I know. Maybe people like me are rare. I don't know. I can go days or a week or more without a single meaningful conversation with another person. Doesn't bother me a bit.
Anyone else out there like this? Does this seem strange?