Well, it never fails when I'm around those who are not Orthodox who claim to be devout Christians. I got myself an earful from a good friend's father at her babyshower about why my faith is wrong, how my beliefs are wrong and that I need to read Ephesians over and over again until it sinks in that salvation is a guarantee given to us once we are born again according to Paul and that if you said you've experienced this and walked away from the faith, that your faith was false, you were never truly saved blah blah blah and therefore once you are saved, you are always saved. The hardest part for me is that I am not as rooted in understanding about the faith as it would take to debate such a person (he continued to state how he's been a Christian for well over 40 years and he knows more than me and I'm wrong and I'm this and that). I had to tell him over and over "I respectfully disagree and you don't have to agree with me, this is my walk, not yours." At one point, he brought up the story of the prodigal son and how he was not truly a son until he returned to the father.
The worst part about it all is that he thinks I worship Mary and that I pray to Saints as if I pray to God and then he started intensely telling me he could care less about church history and if it can't be backed up with the Bible, he doesn't need it or care for it. I tried to explain to him about a great person in his family, perhaps his great grandfather did something profound that affected the course of his lineage. I'm sure you still honor his life and share his stories with your children. You don't dismiss him as unimportant since he lived in a time different than yours. Why would he dismiss the great grandfathers of our Christian faith? I'm ashamed because he really backed me in a corner and then included his wife in ganging up on me about it. I was a weak voice for the Orthodox faith.
I really enjoy being Greek Orthodox and I wish I could be left alone by Protestant based Christians. Why can't I worship in peace and be free of their judgments in this society?
Um, so, have you ever found yourself in such a predicament where you weren't nearly as knowledgable about your faith as the other person is about theirs? How have you dealt with a situation like this?
Is it ok if I bring this here? I'm very comfortable with this board and part of the reason why he had a bone to pick with me is that I explained I enjoy hearing my parent's language spoken and chanted while I worship God.
The worst part about it all is that he thinks I worship Mary and that I pray to Saints as if I pray to God and then he started intensely telling me he could care less about church history and if it can't be backed up with the Bible, he doesn't need it or care for it. I tried to explain to him about a great person in his family, perhaps his great grandfather did something profound that affected the course of his lineage. I'm sure you still honor his life and share his stories with your children. You don't dismiss him as unimportant since he lived in a time different than yours. Why would he dismiss the great grandfathers of our Christian faith? I'm ashamed because he really backed me in a corner and then included his wife in ganging up on me about it. I was a weak voice for the Orthodox faith.
I really enjoy being Greek Orthodox and I wish I could be left alone by Protestant based Christians. Why can't I worship in peace and be free of their judgments in this society?
Um, so, have you ever found yourself in such a predicament where you weren't nearly as knowledgable about your faith as the other person is about theirs? How have you dealt with a situation like this?
Is it ok if I bring this here? I'm very comfortable with this board and part of the reason why he had a bone to pick with me is that I explained I enjoy hearing my parent's language spoken and chanted while I worship God.