If you think it's rough being a parent, think how God must feel as
our Father......
I am a parent to four children now ranging in age from 26 to 18. Each age group has it's own joys and difficulties. I think that they are most interesting at the age of two years old. This is the time when they are exploring their new world. They are funny at that age.....but the ornaments have to be put up out of reach, fridge and cupborad doors guarded and protected, etc.
There have been testing times, fun times and happy times and it can be hard work - if you put your "all" in to it. For those of you who are thinking about future parenting, particularly the men, then I would encourage you to go for it! If my experience is typical, then not everything will run smoothly, but the benefits and joys far outweigh the stresses.
If I can be so bold as to offer some advice, again particularly to men, it's - LOVE your children. Dote on them, never ignore them, look out for the unspoken signs. It's particularly important for men to be fathers to their children - children need a father (don't we all), and in partiocular, men, love your daughters - they need it particularly....don't underestimate how much love your children need.
I just feel the prompting to add this comment, maybe it's relevant for one of you out there in cyber-land.....
As Christians, divorce is really not an option (another debate sometime) but where divorce takes place it has devastating consequences on the children, and no matter how much you tell them that it's not their fault - they won't take that on board. You should think or marriage as being two sheets of paper stuck together with superglue and divorce as trying to separate those two sheets. I think you will see that it's impossible. All that's achieved is that the stuck-together sheets are ripped. Think of the children of a marriage as being the result of those two pieces of paper being stuck together to produce one new sheet of paper. I'll leave you to think what happens to the child in a divorce sitiuation.......
Can I hasten to add that, in no way, do I want to bring condemnation upon anyone who has gone through divorce and is now a single parent. You need our greatest love and support. I rather think that my thoughts are directed towards any who are married and have children and may be contemplating divorce.
Much love to all of you.......