To be honest, I had to walk away from my church for much the same reasons.
The pastor we voted in, started out well, but it didn't take long to see we (deacons) had made a mistake.
He wanted a music director, but wanted absolute say so over not only the music chosen, but how it was sung and played.
He started to run the Sunday School, without consulting the Sunday School director (me).
He started to stick his nose in the offering plate. He demanded that he be given a detailed list of:
- Who tithed that day in church
- How much they gave
He started to demand, that's right, demand that a minimum of $2000 per week be in the offering plate. Now look, 75% of our church members were senior citizens, on a fixed budget. I had to count the offering plate every Sunday, I knew how much came in, and I knew who gave and what amount. But it wasn't my business, I could care less. But to demand that some members give more than they could...
When I started going to church there there were about 40 members who came on a constant basis. By this time, it had grown to around 80.
2 Sundays ago, there were 10 members who showed up for the Sunday night service.
The right pastor is a blessing, but its sad to watch this church slowly die. And its heading that way.
God Bless
Till all are one.