- Sep 19, 2019
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Hey, I’m an atheist and I went to church this week with family... just wanted to share my first impression as an outsider. Overall it was a TERRIBLE experience.
First, the greeters and parking directors were very polite but they all just kept saying “good morning” over and over... no one without a name tag said a single thing to me. No one knew it was my first time visiting because no one seemed to know or care to know anything about the people they were greeting. I’ve literally had better conversations with robots.
Worship was very well done, they had lasers, fog machines and brand name equipment. The lead singer was holding notes I know the audience couldn’t sing along with. I would’ve thought it was a professional concert venue.
Next there was a 15 minute offering mini sermon. They definitely were pushing the idea that you’re money belongs to god and you’re basically gonna miss out if you don’t give generously and cheerfully to the church. 15 minutes of what you should do with your money and 0 minutes about what they're doing with it. Where else in life would you donate money without knowing what it’s for?
The church campus was EXTREMELY nice. They had an airplane, gardens, waterfall, bookstore, coffee shop, etc. It was far larger and nicer than my college campus, which makes me wonder how much they’re spending???
The sermon was very well done. The guest preacher was apparently very famous over seas and he was funny and likable. The message was basically a commercial for his latest book and it actually ended with a real video commercial for his book... not surprisingly the books were available for purchase at the exit points afterwards.
As a struggling business owner, THESE GUYS KNOW WHAT THEY'RE DOING. I went to college for marketing & administration and this church is doing everything right. They sell tons of coffee in the morning, boost perceived value during the offering speech, up-sell you at the end, and funnel you into their cafe for lunch... all without paying taxes?!?!
A quick Yelp search revealed that they have free Christian counselors, but people were very unhappy when they arrived at appointments just to be turned away for not meeting the membership requirements. I don’t think a church would cancel counseling appointments if they really cared about the community. This seems like another strategy to keep their donating customers close to home.
my main takeaway was this church is all about the money. I wonder if Christians ever take a step back and look at the churches they’re attending. Does the pastor live in a beach house and have an airplane? Do you know where your donation money goes? Are church salaries hidden? Do they talk more about your money than theirs? Are their facilities appropriate for a “charitable” organization? Do they help people even if they don’t/won’t/can’t come to church? I’m very sad to see so many people contributing to this business. Hopefully your church isn’t like this... BUT PLEASE TAKE A MOMENT TO CHECK
First, the greeters and parking directors were very polite but they all just kept saying “good morning” over and over... no one without a name tag said a single thing to me. No one knew it was my first time visiting because no one seemed to know or care to know anything about the people they were greeting. I’ve literally had better conversations with robots.
Worship was very well done, they had lasers, fog machines and brand name equipment. The lead singer was holding notes I know the audience couldn’t sing along with. I would’ve thought it was a professional concert venue.
Next there was a 15 minute offering mini sermon. They definitely were pushing the idea that you’re money belongs to god and you’re basically gonna miss out if you don’t give generously and cheerfully to the church. 15 minutes of what you should do with your money and 0 minutes about what they're doing with it. Where else in life would you donate money without knowing what it’s for?
The church campus was EXTREMELY nice. They had an airplane, gardens, waterfall, bookstore, coffee shop, etc. It was far larger and nicer than my college campus, which makes me wonder how much they’re spending???
The sermon was very well done. The guest preacher was apparently very famous over seas and he was funny and likable. The message was basically a commercial for his latest book and it actually ended with a real video commercial for his book... not surprisingly the books were available for purchase at the exit points afterwards.
As a struggling business owner, THESE GUYS KNOW WHAT THEY'RE DOING. I went to college for marketing & administration and this church is doing everything right. They sell tons of coffee in the morning, boost perceived value during the offering speech, up-sell you at the end, and funnel you into their cafe for lunch... all without paying taxes?!?!
A quick Yelp search revealed that they have free Christian counselors, but people were very unhappy when they arrived at appointments just to be turned away for not meeting the membership requirements. I don’t think a church would cancel counseling appointments if they really cared about the community. This seems like another strategy to keep their donating customers close to home.
my main takeaway was this church is all about the money. I wonder if Christians ever take a step back and look at the churches they’re attending. Does the pastor live in a beach house and have an airplane? Do you know where your donation money goes? Are church salaries hidden? Do they talk more about your money than theirs? Are their facilities appropriate for a “charitable” organization? Do they help people even if they don’t/won’t/can’t come to church? I’m very sad to see so many people contributing to this business. Hopefully your church isn’t like this... BUT PLEASE TAKE A MOMENT TO CHECK