I met my ex colleague Rado in waiting room in rehabilitation instiution last year in autumn. Doctor had some problems with one other patient, so we could talk to Rado longer time.
At first I asked Rado, if he has some information about our previous work. We discussed it about little bit and then he started discussion about corona. I´ve seen he is fully against corona and means it doesn´t exit. As I believe that corona exists, I was definitly on oposit site in discussion and wanted to stop this topic. He was angry on me, why I don´t have any opinion on it, even I finished University and he told me I am idiot as well.
Thenafter I felt very sad and my feeling were very bad and I asked my self, why I should talk to him, if he tells my that I am an idiot and than I ment that I don´t want to meet him anymore.
This is very important point in our lifes and relationships, because it is work of devil. He wants from people to go away each other, divorse each other, don´t talk each other or fight each other and go into conflict. Devil use our unconfortable bad emotions, like I felt degradation to create conflicts between us. If Rado would say it in pub to somebody else with 3 beers drunk, I think there would be fight. The point is important, because in this point we have choice to go on the way of devil and make conflict or go on the way of God and His love.
Rado in meantime went to visit doctor.
And I knew, that it is work of devil and I choosen to pray to God and asked Him to remove this bad emotion of degradation from my heart and I asked God to appoligize me, that I had so sinful ideas, that I don´t want to meet with Rado anymore.
When Rado came back to waiting room, appologized me for this idiot.
Of course I forgiven him.
I was thinking about it long time. Because for half of year I haven´t met anybody like Rado. Everytime there were nice people. And was thinkink, why now this Rado. And answer is that is it testimony about big power of God. In the time I felt sad, Lord helped me and stayed near to me. More over I didn´t make evil and didn´t resist to Rado as we shouldn´t resist to evil as evil makes evil. So should avoid conflict between us, what devil wants. On the other hand devil stopped to attack us and on the end Rado appologized me and I accepted it, so we are still friends.
From this story we can all learn , how to avoid conflicts. We should pray to God in the time we feel bad emotion and we should ask God to help us to remove bad emotion from our hearts. Than devil has no chance to atack us through bad emotions.
Also people and me as well think logically. As I wanted to don´t meet Rado anymore. But if we watch on our bad emotion and talk about it, we can avoid conflicts and break up.
At first I asked Rado, if he has some information about our previous work. We discussed it about little bit and then he started discussion about corona. I´ve seen he is fully against corona and means it doesn´t exit. As I believe that corona exists, I was definitly on oposit site in discussion and wanted to stop this topic. He was angry on me, why I don´t have any opinion on it, even I finished University and he told me I am idiot as well.
Thenafter I felt very sad and my feeling were very bad and I asked my self, why I should talk to him, if he tells my that I am an idiot and than I ment that I don´t want to meet him anymore.
This is very important point in our lifes and relationships, because it is work of devil. He wants from people to go away each other, divorse each other, don´t talk each other or fight each other and go into conflict. Devil use our unconfortable bad emotions, like I felt degradation to create conflicts between us. If Rado would say it in pub to somebody else with 3 beers drunk, I think there would be fight. The point is important, because in this point we have choice to go on the way of devil and make conflict or go on the way of God and His love.
Rado in meantime went to visit doctor.
And I knew, that it is work of devil and I choosen to pray to God and asked Him to remove this bad emotion of degradation from my heart and I asked God to appoligize me, that I had so sinful ideas, that I don´t want to meet with Rado anymore.
When Rado came back to waiting room, appologized me for this idiot.
Of course I forgiven him.
I was thinking about it long time. Because for half of year I haven´t met anybody like Rado. Everytime there were nice people. And was thinkink, why now this Rado. And answer is that is it testimony about big power of God. In the time I felt sad, Lord helped me and stayed near to me. More over I didn´t make evil and didn´t resist to Rado as we shouldn´t resist to evil as evil makes evil. So should avoid conflict between us, what devil wants. On the other hand devil stopped to attack us and on the end Rado appologized me and I accepted it, so we are still friends.
From this story we can all learn , how to avoid conflicts. We should pray to God in the time we feel bad emotion and we should ask God to help us to remove bad emotion from our hearts. Than devil has no chance to atack us through bad emotions.
Also people and me as well think logically. As I wanted to don´t meet Rado anymore. But if we watch on our bad emotion and talk about it, we can avoid conflicts and break up.