I have a friend who has been married for 12 years. She is going through depression due to suffering baby loss/infertility and hasn't been able to leave the house very much.
Her and her husband were in the middle of looking for a new church.
A pastor friend told her husband - "If she doesn't want to, or can't leave the house, you should just go to a church without her. Leave her at home and you go take care of your own spiritual needs!" He insisted that her husband just leave her at home while he goes to church. She heard the conversation over the phone and later her husband told her what he said.
He is thinking of going ahead with it.
I found this very harsh. She is most upset. She can do church online but would dearly love to attend church.
Is their pastor friend out-of-line with this comment?
He isn't married and sometimes appears a bit legalistic.
Her and her husband were in the middle of looking for a new church.
A pastor friend told her husband - "If she doesn't want to, or can't leave the house, you should just go to a church without her. Leave her at home and you go take care of your own spiritual needs!" He insisted that her husband just leave her at home while he goes to church. She heard the conversation over the phone and later her husband told her what he said.
He is thinking of going ahead with it.
I found this very harsh. She is most upset. She can do church online but would dearly love to attend church.
Is their pastor friend out-of-line with this comment?
He isn't married and sometimes appears a bit legalistic.