Not to draw upon spectacular disparities, the kindness, or the severity of the Lord, these should never step forward without the other; severity over kindness except where the Lord’s mercy equips the onlooker appropriately as per need bases. Though ‘mercy’ is the Lord’s preference, it is not cause to set aside the Apostle’s precepts of severity,
I discipline my body and bring it into subjection, lest, when I have preached to others, I myself should become disqualified, , For if you live according to the flesh, you will die; but if by the Spirit you put to death the misdeeds of the body, you will live.
I could have saved myself, possibly others ample heartache had I been informed of this early on and thereby do advise all new to the Church of Christ, do not let this slip.