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Bulan77
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I suspect my husband has mild Aspergers, mainly related to social skills and a glaring over-emphasis on tangible/sensory stimuli, while having a difficult time (and often avoiding) conceptual/intangible issues.
Anyway, here's the problem: He suspects he has Aspergers too, but only half of the time. Once in a while he's willing to consider being assessed by a professional.
The rest of the time he tells me I'm wrong about his symptoms, or that he just doesn't fit into my family's way of communicating, or that maybe my expectations are the real problem.
Then, when he comes back to realizing he might have Aspergers, he apologizes for his frequent denials, and tells me he sometimes struggles with pride, or a feeling of guilt, or that he's sensitive about labels and doesn't react well to the Aspergers label being applied to him.
I understand that this struggle can be hard, but I find it hard dealing with the constant back and forth, not to mention the communication hurdles that often cause tension between us, or between my husband and others.
Does anyone have advice about any of this?
Also, what other AS/NT marriage woes do you struggle with, and what's your advice about those?
Anyway, here's the problem: He suspects he has Aspergers too, but only half of the time. Once in a while he's willing to consider being assessed by a professional.
The rest of the time he tells me I'm wrong about his symptoms, or that he just doesn't fit into my family's way of communicating, or that maybe my expectations are the real problem.
Then, when he comes back to realizing he might have Aspergers, he apologizes for his frequent denials, and tells me he sometimes struggles with pride, or a feeling of guilt, or that he's sensitive about labels and doesn't react well to the Aspergers label being applied to him.
I understand that this struggle can be hard, but I find it hard dealing with the constant back and forth, not to mention the communication hurdles that often cause tension between us, or between my husband and others.
Does anyone have advice about any of this?
Also, what other AS/NT marriage woes do you struggle with, and what's your advice about those?