I would have hit "agree" except for the bit about it never happening.
Is change so impossible to imagine there?
It's becoming impossible for
me to imagine meaningful positive change here. My heart is sick over it.
If you don't belong to one of two political / social cults here, you may not exactly be ostracized, but you are considered "not to exist," at least as far as your ideas go. I have seen many perfectly good ideas start to get a foothold in public discourse and then immediately get destroyed. If it threatens profit, it will be laughed out of existence, ignored, or (so often the case these days) turned into a degenerate parody of itself that makes things worse.
I'm a leftie, but I'm talking not only about left-ish ideas here. If what you want goes against profit, you are taking on the entire "system." Anything having to do with "people being able to take care of their own children" is against profit. Children have to be generated to keep the "economy" going. But profit requires that as MANY people as possible be working for junk wages so their labor can be stolen. So it's an offense to profit for people to take care of their children. Profit wants the children to be warehoused in daycare centers or schools where they can be "overseen" in large groups attended to by just one or a couple adults. Profit wants the home EMPTY during the day. Everyone should be warehoused or slaving away at some job or another. There is no more hearth.
On the "mainstream" right, this basic truth about how our country works is hidden by notions of meritocracy, "saving money" (for most Americans: all but impossible), and sometimes by various complaints about "women's lib."
Among the "mainstream" liberals, the problem is gauzed over with talk about "affordable child care." So both parents can work, right? Why do both parents have to work? It wasn't always this way.
No one is willing to address that among most wealthy Americans and most poor Americans, the very idea of parents spending meaningful time with their children is going the way of the passenger pigeon. It has to be considered impossible because to consider it POSSIBLE means you immediately wake up to that it is normal and desirable...and then you're pushing back against the weight of the whole system again.