I'm sorry you feel that way. My information about Kaepernick's intent comes from his own comments at the time and those of his close associates. I suppose you must believe they were lying.
You don't seem to get it. I don't "feel" any "way" about it. I merely observe that there
is evidence to suggest that they are showing disrespect for the flag and the anthem, intentional or not.
You can sit, you can kneel, you can do cartwheels if that's your thing, but if you do anything but stand, in a respectful manner, during the playing of the national anthem, in front of a captive audience, you're probably going to be suspected of some kind of exploitation. Somehow, that seems more than reasonable to me.
Now, should you go to jail for it? I don't think so, since it is obviously an act of free expression protected by the law of the same land over which the flag flies and the anthem plays. That's the beauty of our Democratic Republic.
But should you expect to be able to make demands on how people who feel strongly about the respect they feel these symbols warrant verbally express their frustration over what they see happening? Probably not a good idea, either. Presumptuous at best, stupid at worst, I'd say.
Personally, I believe the flag-waving thing can be overdone. I did my four years in the service and 18 more as a Navy brat, so I think I have as much a right as any to speak my mind.
But in the spirit of transparency and full disclosure, I frankly don't understand the double standard. If a patriotic person unintentionally shows disrespect to some unfortunate concern, they are instantly considered guilty.
Evidence means nothing, unless it supports the cause du jour.