I am under the impression that I can post material of a fellowship nature, which I am doing. I am not debating anything here. It is good to have supportive brothers and sisters in Christ because they can be a great comfort, but shyness can find making new friends very challenging.
In my church, when I joined it in 1996, it took a year or two before I felt that I had real friends in it. It is a small Presbyterian church and I feel quite comfortable in it. The last time I went to a large Pentecostal church I felt overwhelmed by the numbers there, and no one spoke to me at all. I was actually glad to get out of there and back to my own church.
I responded because I went through two years in my first church (1966) when I did all the church stuff but didn't know Jesus personally. One day I got so frustrated, that I went back to my home town, got into the middle of a golf course and introduced myself to Jesus. Immediately I felt all lit up like Times Square, and I heard His voice for the first time. That changed my whole perspective and my life, and that sense of His presence and reality has never left me from that time until this.
Fellowship on a personal level with Jesus is very important to me, and when I see a post where someone is struggling with loneliness in the church, I feel exercised to share my testimony about it.
No offence intended.