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A fan thread for author and speaker Alain de Botton.
I somehow got to watching videos about marriage and relationships and eventually stumbled on this video. It's a funny but also thought provoking video from a obvious secular author and thinker on modern relationships. He spends the first half of the video talking about the fallacies we inherited from the Romantic movement, and then spends the other half talking about a "Curriculum of Love" that we should learn to help ourselves through when the marriage or relationship hits the rough patch.
A few quotes for folks that don't want to watch the video.
Rather than some notional idea of perfect complementarity, it is the capacity to tolerate dissimilarity that is the true marker of the 'right' person.
— Alain de Botton, The Course of Love: A Novel
You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honor of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
— Alain de Botton, Successful Parenting
Most of what makes a book 'good' is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
— Alain de Botton, via twitter.com
I somehow got to watching videos about marriage and relationships and eventually stumbled on this video. It's a funny but also thought provoking video from a obvious secular author and thinker on modern relationships. He spends the first half of the video talking about the fallacies we inherited from the Romantic movement, and then spends the other half talking about a "Curriculum of Love" that we should learn to help ourselves through when the marriage or relationship hits the rough patch.
A few quotes for folks that don't want to watch the video.
Rather than some notional idea of perfect complementarity, it is the capacity to tolerate dissimilarity that is the true marker of the 'right' person.
— Alain de Botton, The Course of Love: A Novel
You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honor of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
— Alain de Botton, Successful Parenting
Most of what makes a book 'good' is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
— Alain de Botton, via twitter.com